30 November 2017

pin to present: candy ornaments

The day after Thanksgiving, Hendrik was ready immediately to get out the mini tree that I let him have and decorate (and re-decorate) to his heart's content last year. So I thought for this year it would be fun to try out an easy, kid-friendly, super inexpensive DIY I spotted on Pinterest: melted peppermint ornaments.



He loves my stash of cookie cutters almost as much as this little tree, so it was the perfect project. He got to dig through and pick out all of the Christmas cookie cutters, and then we just followed the instructions closely (important, because they can be finicky and brittle if you don't), and they turned out great! Totally worth the $1.50 for the mints - all of the other supplies I already had on hand.

Besides being a fun Thanksgiving weekend activity to do together, the bonus was that it was a great fine motor skills and spatial/puzzle activity for a preschooler: he was in charge of taking all of the individually-wrapped mints out, and then he also could work on fitting mints into the cookie cutter shapes, figuring out where he could place them to fill in gaps after I cut some of them into smaller pieces for him.

Other bonus: we had some leftovers, which I used for a tasty Pinterest-inspired treat - stay tuned for that next week!

29 November 2017

reading lately: black in America

Based on political circumstances and also really excellent initiatives I've been following, like the Diverse Books Club, I've been prompted to expand my reading horizons a bit, beyond my sometimes tendency toward purely escapist reading... In her review of Jodi Picoult's Small Great Things, my mom wrote, "Although I see some of the advantages I have, I have progress to make in ferreting out where White privilege is unseen in my life" - and that is where I am coming from in reading all of the following books. They all give insight into being black in America, a diversity of insight in better understanding others' lives and my own that I am very happy to have in my life after having read them (and I got to escape into some excellent fiction at the same time).


Dreamland Burning
Seventeen-year-old Rowan Chase is home one day when yard workers come across hundred-year-old bones buried behind the house. She gets drawn into the mystery of whose body it is and how it ended up there, while readers get drawn into 1920s Tulsa in alternating chapters, seeing the circumstances that led up to some terrible race riots through the eyes of 17-year-old Will, who comes to see the injustice in the division of Jim Crow and works to do what's right on the night that Tulsa burns. I really appreciated how well this book wove together the two worlds, getting readers inside some current race issues in our society with Rowan (who has one black parent), but then also revealing a historical event that I knew nothing about but is very important. Plus, all the while, it was a pretty darn enjoyable YA read - it becomes a real page-turner in the end, so it will appeal to fans of YA, mystery, and historical fiction alike. I quibbled with a few plot points, like the idea of an investigator letting teenagers be part of figuring out a crime, but hey, it's fiction, and it worked to tell the story/explore the themes. 3.5/5 stars


The Hate U Give
Another YA exploration of the themes of racial inequality and injustice, here focusing on police violence against young black men. It's sort of a ripped from the headlines type scenario: high schooler Starr Carter is riding in a car with a childhood friend when they are pulled over by a white police officer, who ends up shooting and killing the unarmed Khalil. Starr's world is shattered - she has to deal with the trauma of witnessing the death of her friend, and at the same time decide whether and how to make the true story known (since the police officer is not charged with the death), in the midst of riots and grand juries, and even danger to her own life, after Khalil's story has become a national headline. I think this book really gets you into the mind of teenagers who have to live with this fear of police brutality, even explicitly bringing up cases like Trayvon Martin and Tamir Rice as the characters work through how to live and act in the face of this violence and injustice. I was also really interested in the "code switching" aspect of this story, with Starr living in predominantly black neighborhoods, somewhat ruled by gangs, while attending a private school with a lot of wealthy students, where she is one of only a couple of black students. All of this opened my eyes to an entirely different experience than my own of living in this country. It's a riveting story, very topical, and heart-wrenching - well worth a read. 4/5 stars


Small Great Things
I'm usually not much of a Jodi Picoult reader, but this one was recommended to me, so I picked it up - and am glad I did. Again, a very topical read in terms of racism in our current society, this time dealing with racial injustice in the workplace and court system, and also the too-real culture of white supremacists (sometimes society is good at pretending that things like this are in the past, like before Civil Rights and stuff, but they are reality, as we see in this story). Ruth Jefferson is an experienced and skilled labor & delivery nurse who has a baby die while in her care - but this happens after the child's parents, who are white supremacists, have explicitly said that Ruth, as an African American, is forbidden to touch their child. Ruth's hesitation in starting CPR leads to a charge of murder, and the story alternates between the perspective of Ruth, of her public defender, and that of the child's father, as it progresses through Ruth's arrest and trial. Reading a story line from the point of view of a white supremacist is supremely disturbing, especially in light of the recent events of Charlottesville (and how our president responded), but I really appreciated the author's note at the end about the story came about, in which she says: "Most of us think the word racism is synonymous with the word prejudice. But racism is more than just discrimination based on skin color. It's also about who has institutional power. Just as racism creates disadvantages for people of color that make success harder to achieve, it also gives advantages to white people that make success easier to achieve. It's hard to see those advantages, much less own up to them. And that, I realized, was why I had to write this book. When it comes to social justice, the role of the white ally is not to be a savior or a fixer. Instead, the role of the ally is to find other white people and talk to make them see that many of the benefits they've enjoyed in life are direct results of the fact that someone else did not have the same benefits." This fictional representation is a great way to get at this kind of understanding. (And along these story lines, I recommend you take a listen to this StoryCorps firsthand account from a former Neo-Nazi of changed hearts/minds -  it's really moving.) 3.5/5 stars


Brown Girl Dreaming
In this memoir written in narrative verse, Jacqueline Woodson writes of growing up in the 1960s and 1970s, and what it was like to be raised partly in the south, partly in Brooklyn, as an African American child seeing the Civil Rights movement unfold both at home and in the nation - but also what it was like to find her voice as an individual and storyteller from a young age. The book is technically made up of many poems, but it's also geared toward late elementary/middle school readers, so the result is really accessible poetry that tells a somewhat linear story, and also that communicates so vividly the perspective and feelings of a child, rather than an adult thinking back on her life. It's really really well done. I do think I'll have to come back to this book as the Kindle version probably did it no service with wonky formatting - I imagine it's best as an audio book, so you can really appreciate the lyricism and rhythm. 4/5 stars


Between the World and Me
Written in the form of a letter to his son after the tragic examples of Trayvon Martin and Michael Brown, this book is Ta-Nehisi Coates' framework for understanding race in America - both in a broad sense (how the country was built on this idea of "race," a false concept that has led to so much damage/violence and still does) and in a very personal sense (how then, are he - and his son - to live here and find a way to live within their black body in terms of personal safety and also trying to be free from the burden of history?). I'm not usually one to move away from my preferred category of novels (somehow especially when the "important" label gets attached to a book) but I'm here to say this is a must-read. The personal approach is very moving; the writing is so excellent, almost poetic; and I think Ta-Nehisi Coates is such an important and smart voice on this topic. I was so struck by his firsthand account of how no matter how much education or wealth or social status a black man might have, he is still first "black" - and in our system, that seems to give police the right to harm his body, and this is because our entire country was set up on this premise of him being "less than," with the nation being built on the subjugation of black people. His discussion of visiting Paris for the first time and not feeling that institutional history was so eye-opening to me. I think this is such an important book to read for the uncomfortable feelings it gave me in seeing how the institutions of our country are fundamentally set up for white privilege - and as with the quote from Jodi Picoult above, Coates made me sit with that truth that in reading this book, the point is not to get answers on how I, as one who comes out on top in all the categories of privilege in our system (except that female part) can "fix" it. The point is that I understand how the system has set up my life so differently and acknowledge the privilege in it. 5/5 stars


So many important books here - I highly recommend all of them for the subject matter, but also for how well written they are. And for just plain engaging and enjoyable reading, really.

28 November 2017

to wear: holiday season 10x10 challenge

Even though I don't need to do any suitcase packing for the holidays anymore (a major perk of moving back to your hometown - getting to do all of the family holiday events, while still sleeping in your own bed!), I still love a good holiday mini capsule that incorporates some festive reds and plaids...



There's just something about getting dressed in December that makes me excited about mixing and matching lots of outfits - partly because I have a few holiday season favorites (like a Christmasy plaid shirt and flats that spell noel) that want to get a lot of wear in a short amount of time, and partly because there are a lot of events and gatherings that call for nice ensembles.

So with how well my fall 10x10 challenge (10 items, 10 outfits) went, I thought I would go for it again this month. Very excited about the remixing possibilities of this lineup, and the excuse to insert a little bit of festivity into my everyday wear (not to mention some great dressing up possibilities for any parties!).

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27 November 2017

gift guide: wants

The last couple of years, I have been categorizing my gift grid holiday buying charts into what everyone in your life might want, need, wear, and read. It's an easy way to come up with a range of appropriate ideas, and so this year I thought I'd go all in on the categories.... Thus here's a full slate of wishlist type gifts that everyone - him, her, them (teachers, BFFs, grandparents, etc.), little mister, little miss - might want, in every shape and size of gift, from big ones under the tree to little ones in the stocking, personalized gifts, and last-minute ones too, that you can easily grab at somewhere like the grocery store!


for him: East Dane Gifts pac-man mini game | Bose wireless headphones | Mark & Graham monogrammed money clip | seasonal 6-pack from his favorite brewery | for her: West Elm ceramic bud vases | Beautycounter flawless in 5 makeup set | J. Crew monogrammed bag | gift card from her favorite store - I'm partial to Target and J. Crew | for them: Gift Boutique sprinkle joy jar | YETI patterned yoga mat | NGC Designs personalized Starbucks cups | Home Depot succulent garden | for the little mr: Tecking magic inductive car (follows a black line as you draw it!) | Duplo my town pizzeria | Land of Nod personalized chair | Crayola washable markers | for the little miss: Play-Doh confetti collection | Micro Kickboard scooter | Freckle Box personalized coloring book | Peeps marshmallow snowmen

I think Hendrik's wishlist would include something like the Duplo set, but what he's actually getting is the scooter - which he doesn't even know he wants yet, but he totally will.

Next week I'll have a lineup of ideas for need gifts - practical things that are still nice to give. Then we'll follow that with plenty of ideas for wear gifts, and finally an all books gift grid to cap it off with read (super excited about this one). Stay tuned!

24 November 2017

5 things Friday: November favorites edition

Hendrik has been ready to move on to the Christmas season for ages - and while I love his excitement, I'm not one to rush November. Holiday decor and music don't start until after Thanksgiving here - but then they start in earnest. So while we head off to get our tree, here's a quick recap of this month's favorites as its on its way out...



kid buy: our kid-friendly dishes had seen better days, and they didn't fit in the new drawer layout very well either, so I used this excuse to replace them - and finally have tracked down something durable AND in a great color palette.

family photo: we just got the results of our October family photo session, and while there are not that many adorable 4-year-old smiles to be found (these photos will definitely be a record of the zany expressions of this stage, I can say at least), we have a few winners, topped by this one, taken under the same arch where Peter and I took junior/senior banquet photos in high school (!)

Hendrik masterpiece: Hendrik has been quite the artist in the last couple of months, and it's been so fun to see him start to do representational artwork for the first time. This one of a "happy farmer" is just the best.

boxed meal: we tried Hello Fresh this month, and while I don't think I'll keep it up (I already cook similar level of meals, less expensively), it was actually really nice to have a few meals planned and prepped. I'll definitely be remaking this figgy pork tenderloin - the only one of the meals that really tasted more complex/interesting than a recipe I might usually do, and it really was pretty easy. We all loved it.

Black Friday sale: I'm not a Black Friday shopper, but I'm most certainly not opposed to an online sale, especially when it starts early - thank you, J.Crew Factory. Stocked up on a couple of sweaters, new earrings, and a plaid shirt that will feature heavily in my upcoming holiday capsule, all at 60% off.

Hope you are all enjoying a lovely Thanksgiving weekend - and perhaps the start of some Christmas season fun too.


21 November 2017

wearing lately: Thanksgiving ready

I thought last Sunday would be the perfect opportunity to take my idea for a Thanksgiving outfit out for a spin... and it was just what I was looking for. Fall-feeling colors and cute-yet-cozy (fleece lined tights ftw!).



Also, another new way to wear this sweater that was almost on the "out" pile, and I loved it just as much as both versions in my October 10x10 challenge. Love giving an old piece new life, even if it did mean acquiring a new skirt for this iteration... It was a good buy though - I love a mini skirt + tights + boots combo.

What are your Thanksgiving plans? We will make the very short drive across town to my parents' house, where I'm lucky enough to spend the afternoon with all sides of my family - both sets of grandparents, and in-laws too! So I'll see you back here on Friday with a little recap of my November favorites - because then I'm going into post-Thanksgiving Christmas mode, even if it's not quite December yet. Happy Thanksgiving!

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20 November 2017

mini me Monday: wardrobe refresh

As seems to happen every season, when the weather really changes, I realize all of a sudden that Hendrik's clothes are all way too small. So a quick little late fall wardrobe refresh was in order for some warmer layer options, and I've had some pretty great finds.

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And while I was at it, I figured I'd offer up some of his cute but now way too small clothes on Poshmark - if' you've got a 2- or 3-year-old little man to shop for, check out my closet here! Got some great sweatshirts and snow boots too (because the next size up in snow boots needed to happen too, but we're hoping those aren't entirely necessary to wear for a while longer... please, Michigan weather?).

17 November 2017

five things Friday: around the internet edition

Happy Friday! We're looking forward to a weekend of Peter not being on call, so we can actually have some plans and/or family outings... But while we count down the hours until we can clock out, I thought a little distraction might be in order, of 5 things I've loved around the internet lately:


1. 7 favorite Jane Austen retellings: I am totally a sucker for Jane Austen retellings, so I was excited to see some new-to-me ones on this list. I loved Eligible and The Jane Austen Project, and Pride and Prejudice and Mistletoe just sounds like it would be fun December reading, even if it is kind of fluffy...

2. Leather leggings, three ways: never thought I'd go here, since I'm not that into leggings as pants, or leather - but never say never (as my mom always says), because I might have added a pair to my wardrobe. I love these 3 styling ideas, and I'm also scheming a bunch for the holiday season.

3. Tie-dye fall leaf cookies: but before we move on to Christmas, let's pause on these fun fall cookies Kait made. I think Hendrik would have so much fun with this dying and twisting, we might have to pull out the mixer this weekend.

4. Clean beauty: my mom gave me a few Beautycounter skincare products for my birthday, and I love them. Been contemplating replacing my makeup with their versions as well, but it feels like a scary commitment to just order them online, so I've been reading up on reviews like this one.

5. The Target items we're snagging right now: I admit, I put many of these on my wishlist. Target does it again - as always.

16 November 2017

pin to present: Thanksgiving table

It's right about this time every November that my mom and I start perusing Pinterest (okay, frantically searching) for Thanksgiving tablescape ideas. Which reminded me that I had a few snapshots of last year's Pinterest-inspired settings I hadn't yet shared!



We love a good kraft paper table topper, and - importantly - my mom still has remnants of a huge roll of it from my sister's wedding, so this one was pretty quick and easy, once I had cut out little cardboard templates for the utensils and could then trace them all on. And table settings with a nice candle glow are always a good touch - we opted for the safer LED versions, but lovely all the same.

How are you prepping Thanksgiving this year? I'm still thinking my herringbone pumpkins might be a good centerpiece option over here...

15 November 2017

Wednesday wishlist

I've started trolling my favorite online shopping sites to put together my annual holiday gift grids, and there's some good stuff out there. Which means pretty much all I have so far is a wishlist of my own:



I'm not the only one who does this, right? At least I haven't bought myself any of it (yet).

What's on your holiday wishlist this year? Or on your list of gifts to buy? Any categories of giftees that I should make sure to include in this year's gift guides?

14 November 2017

wearing lately: quilted downtown jacket

Light jackets are one of my favorite things about fall, and one of my very favorite jackets is my downtown field jacket from J.Crew. Only problem is that it's not warm enough to wear into Michigan Novembers... So a new version that's warmer and comes in this fabulous green? Yes, please!



This jacket is fall style perfection, just like that tree in my yard is fall foliage perfection. Love that it's warmer without being too bulky. Also love how it pairs with a cozy turtleneck sweater and makes a great pulled-together outfit completer. Loving less? How the sunshine on this day was the only thing keeping me from the full-on winter coat... Come on, winter - give me a little more time!

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10 November 2017

five things Friday: wood you be mine edition

As I've added decorative touches to our current house, I've been drawn to some elements of a rustic sort of wood. "Rustic" isn't my style, but I think it turns some more modern pieces, like the Crate & Barrel sectional and white tulip table, into a perfect transitional style. And that feeling has only increased as I've added wood bar stools and more to our new kitchen of sleek white cabinets and polished marble counters.

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Here are 5 rustic wood finds that I would love to be mine - okay, a couple of these items I may have already acquired for the kitchen (the spoon rest and the tray) - they're really functional but also lovely, and all that for quite a bargain too.

And I don't usually get into all the big Target collaboration collections, nor am I that into the whole Chip & Joanna/Magnolia stuff, but I'll admit I'm quite enamored of the Hearth & Hand with Magnolia set, in part because of the presence of my current favored wood tone. But also the mix of wood and creams and natural greens they have going on just seems like such a cozy yet refreshing way to go for holiday decor this year - the cute little nesting houses could become so festive, and I also want (at least) one of each on the sage garland, house giftwrap, beaded wood garland, and knit tassel throw pillow.

Scheming and dreaming over here...

09 November 2017

pin to present: thankful tree

This year I did zero decorating or home accessorizing for fall (aside from the easy decorated pumpkins I did with Hendrik) - I don't usually do a whole lot seasonally anyway, but then with my dining room furniture sitting in my living room for several weeks during floor refinishing? I just couldn't handle anything else going on. However...when I saw this thankful tree idea from Jones Design Company, I changed my tune quickly.


We have this Japanese maple right outside of our living room window that gets amazingly gorgeous in the fall (you can spy it there behind the couch), and so the excuse to bring a little of it indoors was too good to pass up - especially since it came with these adorable little "i am thankful for" tags (free download from here), a great way to intentionally practice some gratitude during the Thanksgiving season. Granted, it stayed looking like this only for a day or so, but even with the leaves falling off it's still in operation - Hendrik has been busy sounding out and writing things like Gigi and boots on his.

For starters, I'm thankful that all of our furniture is back where it belongs (woohoo new kitchen and refinished floors and restored windows in Hendrik's room!), but also so many more things, big and small: a happy, healthy kid; a husband who (almost) always lets me brush my teeth and jump into bed first; seat heaters on chilly mornings; Pride & Prejudice; work I enjoy; red tassled shoes; a supportive family; tickets to see Les Miserables this month; ice cream and the aforementioned husband who goes and gets it for me...with some frequency.

How are you counting your blessings this Thanksgiving season?

08 November 2017

reading lately: life stories

One thing I love about reading is getting inside of life stories, and getting a little taste of another’s experience with the world. Here I have a mix of fiction and non-fiction reads that are all about the story of a life, or how the story of a life is portrayed or told – and some pretty fascinating lives, too!



Heating and Cooling
In these 52 “micro-memoirs”, which range from a couple of sentences to a couple of pages, Beth Ann Fennelly takes on the range her life story, being a woman, a writer, a mother, a daughter, a wife - sometimes very poignantly, sometimes with a wry humor, and sometimes poetically. You get childhood memories and cultural observations and everything in between. One favorite very short one is titled “Married Love, III” and reads: As we lower onto the December-cold pleather seats of the minivan, we knock hands: both of us reaching to turn on the other’s seat warmer first.” Doesn’t that just turn the mundane routines of a marriage feel poetic and wonderful? I also loved the one called “I come from a long line of modest achievers”: “I’m fond of recalling how my mother is fond of recalling how my great-grandfather was the very first person to walk across the Brooklyn Bridge on the second day.” I just love the unexpectedness and humor that comes in this little bit of family lore she shares. You can easily read it in an afternoon, or it would also be great to pick up and read here and there, so you can have a little more time to ponder. Either way, it’s great, as is her memoir, Great with Child, that I originally knew her from. 4/5 stars


Theft by Finding
This is literally a life story: daily diary entries written by David Sedaris between 1977-2002. Aside from a brief introduction, there’s no editorializing, just the presentation of the entries. And I found it so fascinating and enjoyable. Fascinating because he’s a writer I feel I know pretty well from reading all of his work and listening to a lot of interviews with him (plus his work tends to be stories about his life) - but here you get to know a lot of David Sedaris before he was David Sedaris. So interesting to see how he just scraped by in his 20s and 30s, doing various struggling artist lifestyle kinds of things, like drugs and an assortment of odd jobs, and then to see how his career develops, and get insight into his creative process as well. And it was enjoyable because aside from the beginning feeling a bit slow, these are just delightful little snippets of insight into David Sedaris’ mind, and I think he has the most funny, wry way of observing the world and its quirks. If you haven’t read any David Sedaris before, you should get to know his other work first (better yet, listen on audio - his voice is so great); I’d say the diaries are better to read once you already know and love him. 4/5 stars


Hello, Sunshine
Sunshine Mackenzie is on her way to being a Food Network star, with her hit YouTube channel, popular cookbook, and gobs of Twitter and Instagram followers, until one day it all comes crashing down when her Twitter feed is hacked by someone claiming she’s a fraud. We quickly see that despite her carefully crafted social media responses to handle the situation, it’s actually true... Her cute backstory is totally fake, and now she’s losing her fans, her TV deal, her husband, and her apartment. As she’s forced to return to her childhood home and her true roots, she starts to really think about what it would be to live an authentic life, but only after she tries to claw her way back to the top using all of her old tactics of crafting her celebrity story and public persona. I would call this quite a light read, but it also takes on a serious topic of our times - how the current era of social media saturation influences how we portray our life stories, and how we live our actual lives in light of that. I found that quite interesting, but the character of Sunshine quite annoying at times (that happens to me often when a character might be a perfectly fine character but acts so unlike how I would that I can’t quite handle it), so instead of 3.5 stars, it’s: 3/5 stars


Young Jane Young
While interning for a Florida congressman during college, Aviva Grossman had an affair with the boss, which created quite the national news frenzy when it was found out. Now, years later, we see through three perspectives – her mother’s, her daughter’s, and her own – what that did to her life and her dreams for her future, the lengths she has had to go to make a new life story for herself, and how her past mistake comes back for her when she tries to run for office herself. So here’s another timely one for our culture of cable news punditry and social media! It’s an entertaining read for sure, but it’s also smart and serious and really makes you think about issues like “slut shaming” and the stories we tell about women in our society. In tone (smart characters and zingy dialogue) and format (narrated partly by mother and partly by emails to a pen pal from her precocious daughter), and in taking a bit of a satirical look at something about modern society, it reminded me of Where’d You Go, Bernadette - so if you liked that one, try this! (Also definitely read Gabrielle Zevin’s last book, The Storied Life of AJ Fikry, if you haven’t yet…it’s totally different, but so good!) 4/5 stars


The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
Evelyn Hugo is an Elizabeth Taylor movie star kind of character - she comes from what we might think of as this glamor age of film, with a long and illustrious career - but might be even more famous as tabloid fodder, with all of the Hollywood romances and marriages and scandals. So in this story-within-a-story, Evelyn has decided to finally reveal her life story, telling all of the juicy details to a young reporter, to be published after her death. She details the origins and endings of her famous seven marriages, and reveals who her truest and deepest love was (spoiler alert - not one of the husbands!). I enjoyed the Hollywood story (kind of in the way I enjoy my guilty pleasure, People magazine) and how it spanned her entire career, but the outer frame of the book, the relationship with reporter Monique that you get lots of foreshadowing about, was a less satisfying story arc. Overall a good vacation-type read, particularly if you enjoy some old Hollywood glamour, though even if that's not your thing, it's still a fairly riveting fictional life story either way. 3/5 stars


I'm usually a fiction reader, but the memoir type books here reminded me that I should branch out into that category more. If I find the right one, I find them just as compelling as my beloved novels. Any other great suggestions for me?


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07 November 2017

wearing lately: sunny sweater weather

Here we are in November... with an outftit that is a quintessential illustration of my dual modus operandi for this month's wardrobe: (1) updating my sweater collection and (2) wearing my favorite flats on any day the sun comes out.



If you live in a place with long winters like I do, I think you'll understand how it's hard to maintain warm and fuzzy feelings about your sweater after you've worn them on repeat for so many months. So when sweater weather rolls back around, I like to find a few well-priced selections to freshen things up - and I'm sure I'll get my money's worth out of them if I purchase in November... This one find from the new line at Target fits my desires - cozy textured neutral that's warm but not too bulky. And it was a good deal!

But then, despite it being sweater weather, if the sun makes any appearance and warms things up even a little, I always plan an outfit around my favorite fun flats, because I know that days where being able to go sockless are going to be a distant memory soon. And also because I know that I will start to feel the same way about all of my boots as I do about my aforementioned sweaters, come about February... Honestly if I could wear this combination of neutral top, jeans, and awesome flats every day, I'd be a happy girl, but the boots will be here to stay soon.

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03 November 2017

five things Friday: fun finds edition

Around here, the kitchen renovation is finally coming to a close, and our window restoration project will be wrapped up today (well, until we tackle the next bedroom, anyway), so if that doesn't make for a fun Friday, I don't know what does...

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Want in on the fun? I have 5 great finds to celebrate, thanks to all of the internet browsing I've been doing lately (can't sleep? online shop!) as I've been bringing things out of their month+ storage in the basement and organizing them back into the cupboards - because it made me want to get rid of stuff that I don't love or that doesn't go with the new look, and to go to town with accessorizing the place. First thing to get pitched was all of Hendrik's plastic dishware that was looking worse for wear, and I tracked down these super fun ones as potential replacements. A little pricey, but with an Amazon giftcard in my pocket I may go for it.

And I love the new peachy pink hue from Poppin for storage for the desk in our kitchen, with some coordinating and pretty - yet inexpensive - art to put on the shelves above the desk (the new Project 62 line has some surprisingly good wall decor options, FYI!).

Then as a bonus for this fun Friday roundup, I had to share these fun key chains and shoes I spotted recently, as I am a serious sucker for anything personalized, or for a new twist on a sneaker...

Happy Friday!

02 November 2017

pin to present: DIY dino gloves

Hendrik was set for months on being a t-rex for Halloween, and while I turned to the more talented sewers of Etsy for his costume (that doubles as an adorable down vest!), Pinterest helped me fulfill his dreams of having some dino claws.



He was thrilled with these DIY dino claw gloves, and I loved how they were super easy and inexpensive - we picked out some of those $2 stretchy gloves at Target, and then I just tucked in the ends of each fingertip and took my glue gun to some felt triangles.

Though Halloween is now come and gone, I'm sure we'll get tons more use out of these being added to the dress-up drawer. If you have any kids in your life who are into pretend play, make a pair and make their day too! Just be prepared for having to explain that "dinosaurs have indoor voices too"...

01 November 2017

currently


realizing: how spoiled we got with warm temperatures throughout September and October. Minimal need for coats and 75ish miles per week of outdoor biking since May is pretty well coming to an end now, sad to say.

stirring: some hot chocolate for Hendrik from my homemade mix. At least a few times a week (even in the summer) he's been asking if it's cold enough yet to have it, so at least there's one person who's happy the chilly weather has arrived for good...

appreciating: running water in the kitchen! Wheeee! Love my new faucet. (Going 4 weeks without a sink or dishwasher during a remodel really helps you not take it for granted after that.)

investigating: vacationy stuff around San Diego and maybe Palm Springs. I have a work trip at the end of January, and with how close it is to our anniversary, plus the fact that I have a free plane ticket to sunny southern California in the winter, it seems like we can't not make a vacation out of it, right?! This weekend guide especially makes me want to get to Palm Springs.

following: Brit + Co on Instagram, one of my favorite happy-inducing visuals in my feed - they always have such fun and vibrant photos and creative quotes/graphics, plus lots of inspiring girl power messages too.



This month I am joined by co-host Julie of A Hopeful Hood, and we want to hear what you're currently up to! Please link up only related posts below, and be sure to visit Julie and some others as well.

And for my favorite month to write a currently post in, I'll be back on December 6 with co-host Catherine of A Short Blonde to talk about what we're currently lighting, spending, choosing, sending, and singing.