31 January 2019

pin to present: hygge round up

I'm headed off to a warmer climate again, this time for work - and this time, not south... It's just so dang cold here that the forecast temperature in Copenhagen, Denmark, is 30 degrees warmer in than my hometown in Michigan today! Even if a high of 37 degrees is going to feel somewhat balmy, it's still winter in Copenhagen, and I am determined to experience the art of Danish hygge directly at the source. This emphasis on feeling snug and content in winter by enjoying the simple things that contribute to coziness and well-being sounds like a good way to go for anyone facing a long winter season, so if you're following along from home, here are some ideas from the Pinterest-inspired archives that can get you some hygge feels in your house.


skillet banana cake - so rich and delicious, perfect for cozying up with a cup of coffee and a book


one-pot sausage & goat cheese pasta - something warm and hearty for the season, and easy cleanup too!


recycled crayons - a great snow day activity that has the added benefit of cleaning out your craft supplies!


DIY car ramp - another excellent indoor activity for the little ones, which we have gotten HOURS of use out of over a couple of years


homemade hot cocoa - a no-brainer for coziness, and necessary for when you come back in after all the shoveling...


Stay warm out there, and I can't wait to come back and report on the actual Danish hygge next week!

30 January 2019

reading lately: chapter books!

Everyone in my household is ahead of the 2019 reading goals game at the moment, thanks to our Florida trip... where we discovered we're at a new magical age of kid where he actually wanted (and was able) to sit and read to himself poolside with the rest of us, which was delightful for my own reading time, but also just for the sake of this budding little reader! All of a sudden he's gotten good enough at reading on his own that he's actually been starting to tackle a few (short) chapter books solo, after we read them to him for the first go-round.


For this stage of early reader, these are some favorite shorter chapter books that we have enjoyed lately:

Magic Tree House
While we like to do longer chapter books with him as well, it's nice to have some slim ones like this series to be able to finish in a couple of days. I find the dialogue rather inane in these, but Hendrik loves the time travel to various historical eras (he's an especially big fan of the dinosaur one, but also enjoys the Egypt and knight ones), and he likes the semi-suspenseful endings to many of the chapters when Jack and Annie get themselves into semi-sticky situations in whatever era they've traveled to - because he's always asking me to read another. Dinosaurs before Dark is the one he picked up to read on his own after hearing it read aloud, and he did really well with it!


Narwhal: Unicorn of the Sea!
We came across this on vacation when browsing for a new book for Hendrik (didn't bring enough along!), and it looked adorable just from the cover alone. Lucky kid was shopping with his grandma, who bought him the book and finger puppet set, so we got to discover how adorable it is overall. It's more of a graphic novel layout, great for the cute illustrations and funny dialogue of these two sea creature friends with a mutual love of waffles. Narwhal is an exuberant, infectious kind of character, with Jelly as the perfect foil - if you're a fan of Mo Willems (Elephant & Piggie), this is similar in tone and format for a little bit older readers. We can't wait to read more of this series.


Bink & Gollie
Our original favorite short chapter book series is Mercy Watson by Kate DiCamillo, so of course we had to try this series from her too. These are almost between a picture book and a chapter book - they have chapters, but quite a few illustrations, and occasionally a bit of a graphic novel layout. I like that the stories about these two friends show them being creative and imaginative together, but also show them having some disagreements or frustrations with each other - and then working through those. The series of 3 books is pretty quick to read through, and they're all sweet. (I also like reading stories with girl protagonists to Hendrik - not being overt about it or anything, but just giving some balance and avoiding falling into a trap of pigeonholing certain books for "boys".)


Magic Tree House Fact Trackers
At the end of each Magic Tree House book we've read, there has been a teaser chapter from the accompanying non-fiction volume called a "fact tracker," in which kids can learn more details about the era that Jack and Annie visited in that book. Very enterprising of these publishers, because of course when we finish a story, Hendrik things we should definitely get the fact tracker! He is a kid who really loves facts though; this one has inspired him to get out his own notebook and copy down things like Jack does in the stories. The dinosaur fact tracker was the one he picked on our book-buying outing in Florida, and it's a good non-fiction option for kids around this age if they have particular historical interests.


The Boxcar Children
I saw this on a Kindle deal a while back and just couldn't resist - I loved these books as a kid. I started reading it to Hendrik in Florida as well, but I have to admit that he didn't love it as much as I remember doing - but then, maybe the first book is just a little slow, since it has the setup of actually finding the boxcar, whereas some of the other stories have a bit more action. Comprehension level and length of chapters/overall book are good for this age though, so we'll keep trying, and see if I can kindle the flame of love for this one in the next generation...



If this isn't the most idyllic reading situation, I don't know what is... take me back, Florida!


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29 January 2019

blogger style: one item, two ways

I'm definitely not a person who puts white jeans into a seasonal "box" - though I am a person who feels like they just don't go with winter snow boots, so I don't particularly wear them in winter. But since Dana and I wanted to get a little creative with our closet twin styling series this month, I had an excuse to play around with a cute white jeans in winter look...



In the summer, navy is a go-to to pair with my white denim, as are cognac accessories - and it turns out they work just as well in the winter! The cozy texture of the sweater and the turtleneck silhouette make it look season-appropriate. And then the kerchief injects a bit of fun into dreary winter days (if not a little "flight attendant").

What I'm actually wearing today is these moon boots - you can see what I mean about not feeling like they go with white jeans... just loses a little of the sophistication. But they are rated for -40 degrees, which is practically what we need around here this week.

Now, to see what Dana's wearing with her white jeans, hop on over and check it out!


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25 January 2019

five things Friday: new year, new link love edition

Nearing the end of January and still going strong on those new year, new you feels around here (helps that I feel like a new woman after a few days in the warm Florida sunshine!), so I thought I'd spread the love with sharing a few favorite things seen around blogland lately on that fresh start theme.


1. All the best tips from Marie Kondo's Netflix show: have you watched it yet? I enjoyed it a lot, but sometimes I got sidetracked by how cute Marie is to actually pay attention to the tips, so here they are all distilled in one easy blog post!

2. How to start bullet journaling: even though I already use a bullet journal, I wish I could take Rachel's class. All of her compiled tips in this blog post did give me renewed enthusiasm for adding some new types of tracking pages to mine. And also to order these super fun stencils to make it prettier!

3. Challenging myself in 2019: part of my new year, new you feels is liking the idea of doing a year of good habits challenges, so I loved the additional ideas and thoughts on taking an approach like this to New Year's resolutions from Charmingly Styled.

4. Resolutions to make for a better relationship in 2019: well, working on your relationship is a good thing any time of year of course, but going with that whole January resolution time, I liked these suggestions from The Everygirl. I'm all about planning more dates and trying a new activity together.

5. January style sudoku: ready to start the new year with some fresh wardrobe ideas? I adore Kimi's style sudoku both for the concept and for the cozy chic outfits she's putting together with the items!


Now I'm off to do day 25 of my 30-day yoga challenge - how's your new year, new you kicking off?

24 January 2019

pin to present: art cart

Even before I started watching the Marie Kondo Netflix series, I was in a tidying up mode, brought on by Christmas... particularly in our playroom, where several new Lego sets and more needed a new home. Making room for those involved some weeding out of "little kid" toys, but then I also assessed the drawers full of haphazardly arranged art supplies - and decided I needed to turn to Pinterest for inspiration for a more elegant solution. Enter the art cart!



I was going to go with an inexpensive white cart that is a lot like the inspiration photo, but then Target.com's helpful "recommendations" feature showed me this bigger library-style cart, and I fell in love at first sight. More storage space, and such a fun color.

We have a lot of built-in storage in this room, so we already had the wire baskets, glass jars, and utensil caddy for storing these supplies, but they were kept on various shelves and inside cupboards that were out of Hendrik's reach. Now all of the supplies are out and in sight, which makes for a festively colorful display - plus, when we can immediately see what we have, Hendrik is more inspired to create with it, and he can access it all on his own as well. The first day we had it arranged on the cart, he right away pulled out some glue and pompoms and made a fun collage. All around, we love it!

I linked some similar storage solutions above that are working well for us - glass jars are great for various crafty things like pompoms or acrylic paints, a caddy holds all of our markers and scissors and such, and wire baskets hold other miscellaneous supplies like stickers, pipe cleaners and so on (separated in individual ziplocs), along with a separate one for paper, coloring books, and workbooks.

23 January 2019

a year of good habits challenges

Do you know Gretchen Rubin's Four Tendencies framework, which explores how different personality types form (and keep) habits? My personality type of "upholder" puts me in a category of person who rather likes habits and routine, along with checklists having to do with them (or checklists having to do with anything, really). Not that I'm perfect with keeping good habits - but I do get excited about the idea of them.


And so when I heard Kelsey's idea of doing a 2019 personal challenge of taking on one new healthy habit each day for a month, I was immediately on board, especially because I already started on January 1 of tackling my 19 in 2019 goal of doing a 30-day yoga challenge. Now, I think I'm a fairly healthy person - I already exercise regularly and eat pretty well - but there are plenty of minor things that could add to overall health and wellness and happiness that are sort of easy to ignore in one's busy daily life, and just taking a few minutes to work on adding one of them per month on a daily basis.

So now to think of the categories! I'm thinking of things having to do with health and wellness, but also overall mental health and happiness/satisfaction, so that involves things in my home as well as body. Definitely I am up for trying these each for a month:
  1. doing 10+ minutes of yoga/day
  2. flossing every evening 
  3. eating a vegetable with breakfast every morning
  4. crushing 10 pushups/day
  5. washing my face every night before bed 
  6. meditating 5 minutes each morning 
  7. spending $0 on clothing or makeup or decor 
  8. getting rid of one thing/day
  9. writing in a gratitude journal daily
  10. putting away my phone for the day at 7:00pm
Got a couple more to think up - I was also contemplating a "30 days of zero added sugars" but it's still sounding rather scary to commit to. I'm open to suggestions for the rest...what would you do for a month-long good habits challenge?



I have a pretty good track record of adding these things to my life when I decide to commit to them (here's looking at you, foam roller), but it's the actually deciding to commit, and there's nothing like a fun bullet journal tracker to get one on board with that. I created a couple of grids to fill in - the full year one doesn't look super exciting yet, but my yoga one is well on its way (was up-to-date as of the day I took the photo!)

22 January 2019

wearing lately: winter getaway mini capsule

It's been weirdly not-snowy around these parts for the last month or so, but I'm still plenty happy to welcome a warm-weather winter getaway to my January schedule. Three-generations Florida trip, here we come! And here's what's coming with me:


We're looking at weather that's predicted to range from mid-50s overnight to daytime highs around 80 on a couple days, but then a couple of days more like 65-70 degrees - so that equals a need for a lotta layering options. Hence, one of everything: jeans, long sleeves, jacket, shorts, tee. That's really all I need - we can do laundry there, and for 4-5 days on a low-key, pool-heavy family trip, one doesn't need all that many clothes anyway - yet these few pieces can mix & match into 8 or 9 great outfits. (Though, in full disclosure, on the plane I'll probably wear a white tee and maybe a lightweight gray sweater under the jacket, so that adds additional options without taking suitcase space, which will be instead filled up with exercise clothes, and also Hendrik's stuff.)

And as for transporting non-wardrobe things - I'm very pleased with this tote as a super roomy bag for carrying my books and such and also plenty of plane snacks + entertainment for Hendrik. Plus, it has a suitcase sleeve so that I can slide it onto my rolling suitcase handle for easy airport navigation. And then once we arrive, it doubles as a great beach bag!

Now excuse me as I head off to use my sunglasses...


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18 January 2019

five things Friday: Amazon lately edition + mini giveaway

With Christmas gift ordering and gift card accumulating (and of course Mrs. Maisel and cycling documentary watching!), that Amazon Prime membership of mine has earned its keep around here lately. A few of my recent buys have been extra good though, so I thought a roundup would be worth sharing:

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Quite a random assortment, but all good stuff: the sheet set that Kait recommended is a great price, and they are soft and seem to be holding up well. Love a well-priced sheet set since I always like to have white ones, and white sheets just don't last that long. Plus there's my inexpensive happy light that I love having on my desk in the early mornings to wake me up and combat the SAD, along with a deliciously page-turning YA book (reviewed here) - and a handy fish turner spatula for making delicious foods!

I am obsessed with the Nickel & Suede earrings a lovely friend gifted me for Christmas, enough that when the gold doesn't quite go with my outfit I'm yearning for another pair - so when I saw a recommendation for this leather earring set in which you get 4 colors for $11, I was sold. They're of course not as great as the N&S ones, but fun to have more options now that I have turned into a big earrings wearer.

And here's where the giveaway comes in... Since I already have a gold pair of earrings, I would love to pass the gold ones from this set on to one of you! To enter this mini giveaway, leave a comment on this post (tell me your favorite recent Amazon find, or just say hi), and I'll pick a random winner at the end of next week. (Update: congratulations, Whitney, as winner of the earrings!)

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17 January 2019

pin to present: brown sugar-cinnamon cookies

My little baking assistant needed something to bring to share with his Sunday school class, so we of course turned to my Pinterest board for an idea... Our scrolling through my things to eat board brought up this brown sugar cinnamon cookies recipe that I bookmarked a while back. Since we were fully out of chocolate chips after this pie, it seemed like the perfect type of cookie to branch out on for this go-round in the kitchen.


And while I'll always maintain that chocolate chip cookies are the best kind of cookies, these ones are still pretty darn perfect. I'm always a fan of cookies with a lot of brown sugar, for the rich flavor. With the cinnamon, they're kind of like a snickerdoodle, but even better - nice and chewy in the middle, and a bit more depth of flavor. And with the coconut oil, which you can't even taste (we use the organic, unrefined variety from Aldi or Trader Joe's), you have a teeny argument toward these being healthy cookies. 

Two thumbs up on this recipe!

16 January 2019

watching lately: now streaming

I always feel like I am hopelessly behind the times on viewing TV shows or movies, and it's just compounded by streaming services and how much new content they're constantly putting out. But just in case you have also been a little late to the game on some of these Netflix/Amazon Prime originals, I thought I would share a few that I have found pretty delightful recently.


The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel (season 2): this show just made me smile so much when I watched season 1. It's just buoyant and smart, fun without being overly light. I love the 1950s costumes and settings, and a show with a fast-talking comedienne in the making can't fail to be funny. So I was pretty pleased when I saw the launch of season 2. Though it took me a few episodes to get back into, I'm back to finding it delightful, especially with this family camp in the Catskills that they go to, and the absurdly amusing scenarios involved.

Tidying Up: I will admit that I wasn't a huge fan of Marie Kondo's book, partly because I tried it on audio and the narrator was really weird, and partly because I already love tidying up, so I didn't feel the need to implement her overhaul method on my own home. But watching other people do it in theirs? I'm totally up for that! And I find Marie herself to be just delightful in this show, with her talking to the houses to get to know them, expressions of how things should "spark joy", and her always wearing cute a-line skirts with tights. It's a pretty low-key kind of show - not as much drama or big personality as I've seen on some other shows of this variety (anyone ever watch Clean House with Niecey Nash? That was the best), but I find organization to be soothing, so watching people achieve it is also soothing. Even if it makes me feel a little itchy to see how much stuff they had to begin with. (And of course, I've done a few closet cleanouts since watching...)

Dumplin': YA books often feel like they will translate well to the screen, and Dumplin' does for sure - especially with the Dolly Parton theme running through the story, which makes for a very fun soundtrack. Inevitably some characters or story lines have to be left out or de-emphasized due to time constraints in a movie version, but the essence of it still came through and was really enjoyable. The love story was one area that felt a little played down, which I missed at first because it is cute in the book, but I ended up liking how this put the emphasis more on the female friendships. Loved the book, enjoyed the adaptation too.

Eat. Race. Win.: we're pretty into cycling around here (Peter follows all of the big races, and especially the Tour de France, since that's the one that you can actually watch on TV...) so this Amazon documentary series caught our eye right away, and it turned out to be so great. It follows a chef who is the team chef for a cycling team out of Australia, as they go through the 2017 Tour de France. Part culinary tour of the French countryside (mmmm), part documentary about what goes into feeding a team of guys who burn like 5000 calories a day each during the 3-week race, and part behind-the-scenes into what it's like to be on a team doing this race, what their strategies are for winning stages, etc. Loved the food parts, but got even more into the race aspect of it - a bit nail-biting at times with crashes and such! Highly recommend.

Set It Up: I so rarely watch movies, but every once in a while a rom com hits the spot - especially when you're visiting a friend and get to cozy up on the couch and enjoy some girl time! This story of executive assistants teaming up to set up their bosses so they can actually get some time off work - and then, surprise surprise, maybe just falling for each other in the meantime - is reasonably predictable, but sometimes that's the fun of something like this.


So that's my streaming watching lately. What have you found worth viewing? Chances are I haven't seen it yet, so send your suggestions for me to catch up with the times!

15 January 2019

wearing lately: sparking joy

I think that with the launch of Marie Kondo's Tidying Up on Netflix, this "sparking joy" business is going to be all the rage... I know that watching the series has me inspired, if not to totally Kondo-ify my whole home, at least to apply this threshold to everything I pull out of (and put in!) my closet lately. And this whole outfit? Sparks are flying.



Here's why I'm loving it all: for starters, Madewell's whole line of "coziest yarn" sweaters sparks joy because they're just SO soft and also really warm without bulk, and really cute too. I adore this pretty pink and the sweet roll neck, especially with my favorite chambray peeking out. And then there's the Nickel & Suede earrings my lovely friend gifted me. I so did not think I was a big earrings girl, but I just love how I feel every time I put these on. And we can't forget the joy of matching cognac accessories - this adorable little crossbody was a Christmas gift from my grandparents. It's the perfect size and goes perfectly with my classic cognac flats!

While we're on the subject of joy, here's some non-clothing things sparking the feeling around here lately:

  • Some above-average-temperature January weather that allowed for wearing of my favorite flats, and also a super fun bike ride date and some great outdoor runs.
  • Good hair days.
  • Hendrik adding "And thank you that I can have Christmas break" to the end of a dinnertime prayer - I just love that he had such a fun holiday season.
  • Hendrik going back to school. ROUTINES, baby.
  • Freshly pedicure-d toes, a chance to hang out with my mom during it, and an upcoming opportunity to show it off (Florida, here we come!).
  • Being halfway through my 30-day yoga challenge and seeing no need to ever quit.
  • Listening (and interpretive dancing) to the Sing! soundtrack with Hendrik.

Also: some things that weren't quite up to snuff on sparking joy for me might work for other people...I've done a little cleaning house, and you can check out some of it on Poshmark if interested!


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11 January 2019

five things Friday: beauty clean up edition

I've never been much of a beauty/skincare person, but as I get a little older I have enjoyed exploring the arena a bit more (and, yeah, feeling like my skin needs a little more of this kind of attention as it ages...) - and part of that exploration lately has been finding clean products. If you're on the "clean up" quest too, I have some new favorites to recommend that are phthalate-free, sulfate-free, paraben-free, cruelty-free, and all that good stuff. Plus - not expensive!

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The Pixi glow tonic is something I heard a lot about on blogs/podcasts, but I'm never sure whether stuff like serums and toners actually do anything for me. This one makes my face feel so tight (in a good way) and bright though - it's great, and only $15 at Target. (The bamboo rounds are the absolute perfect thing for applying it. Perfect size, nice and soft, and no waste, because I can wash and reuse them!)

Also for nicely priced Target buys, I highly recommend the Honest Beauty mascara - feels comparable to the Beautycounter one I used, but half the price - as well as these deodorant wipes. They're so great for after a workout when you don't have time for the full shower - gets rid of the BO and replaces it with a really lovely scent.

And then I'm always a sucker for a good-smelling shampoo; when my stylist changed salons and introduced me to the Kevin Murphy line of hair products I probably would have switched anyway for the smell (and the cute packaging), but knowing that it's made without any of the yucky stuff and it's cruelty-free, I love it even more.

So those are my new favorites in my regular skin/hair routine - any other clean beauty suggestions that I should check out?


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10 January 2019

pin to present: brussels & broccoli

With the dawn of the new year, I should probably stop with the series of enticing Pinterest-inspired chocolate chip cookie variations that I seem to find no end to... Resolution time, and all. Maybe a recreation of a vegetable recipe is in order instead - though how about one with bacon?!


This roasted brussels sprouts + broccoli with bacon and walnuts recipe from Bound by Food was actually introduced to me at Thanksgiving a year ago when my grandparents found the recipe online and brought it to our feast as one of the most delicious side dishes I've ever encountered. I pinned the recipe to try later, but somehow never got around to making it until I was assigned veggie side as my dish to bring this past Thanksgiving, and then I remembered about this winner... and I've been making it at home ever since. It's really easy and soooo good.

The sliced up bacon cooks right alongside the veggies, so it serves as the oil and also infuses the roasting with some smoky bacony goodness. Then you've got walnuts for crunch, and a bit of red pepper flakes that adds the perfect small amount of spice to take the flavor up a notch.

Chocolate chip cookies are the best of course, but this seriously is equally as craveable. It's super good as leftovers, but hard for me to have any leftovers because I can't stop eating it at dinner when I make it...

Also makes me want to pick up my veggie game in general from my standard plain roasting - got any other winner recipes that I can pin?

09 January 2019

reading lately: what might have been

I feel like to be human is to wonder what might have been, had we made a different choice about something. It could be as major as what we decided to study, and how that steered our lives, or as minor as which table we pick at a coffee shop, that might put us next to a person we otherwise never would have met. And since it's such a human thought process, of course fiction is all over the topic of what-might-have-beens! These five books all consider how things might have turned out differently - some quite literally, with multiple storylines that show how both ways play out, some through their characters' reflections - if different choices had been made.



The Versions of Us
In this story the "versions" of the title are literal different versions - starting in 1958 when Eva is late for her class at Cambridge and ends up with a flat tire on her bike. Jim is walking the same way and spots her, and this sets up three different ways that their relationship might develop from that initial meeting point: whether Eva decides to decline his help or whether she decides to skip class and have coffee with him, and whether she decides to break up with her boyfriend for him. I will say that it took a while to keep the stories straight among the three versions - while there are many overlaps in the broader strokes of their lives, especially in things that happen to extended family members, there are slightly different career paths and names/number of children etc. for the main two characters, so it could be a bit jarring to switch among the versions - but once I was into it, I was sort of surprised how engrossing I found it. Essentially it just tells the story of Eva and Jim from the time they were college aged until they approach their 80s, with all of the ordinary things that happen in a life, but they are characters who are compelling, and the writing is such that you care about them and what happens next, even if it's not some wildly engrossing fictional plot. And then the added switching among versions of course makes it very interesting to find out how the 3 different ways that their relationship might have started can make that relationship turn out in very different ways, and set them on paths to being very different people in terms of marriage/fidelity, career/potential resentment toward a spouse's career, and so on. 3.5/5 stars


Maybe in Another Life
At age 29, Hannah is still trying to figure out what she wants to do with her life, having lived in many different cities and tried a bunch of different jobs. When she moves back home to LA, staying in her best friend Gabby's guest room, she encounters one moment where a decision will make her life play out very differently: out at a bar with Gabby one evening, she runs into her high school boyfriend, Ethan. There seems to be an immediate spark between them again, but she debates - go home with Ethan, or go home with Gabby? The book is written in alternating chapters describing the outcome of one scenario vs. the other, actually showing the what might have been. They quickly become quite different story lines, but with both, we think about fate and true love, whether it's true that things are "meant to be" or whether it's our choices that lead us to outcomes. This is a fun contemporary women's/romance type read with an interesting twist, given these parallel universes - I thought it could have been cheesy or confusing, but I actually rather liked both story lines, so it was fun to see how it all played out both in terms of the romantic interest but also in terms of the friendship between Hannah and Gabby, as well as the different routes Hannah finds to personal growth. Light but not too light, it's a great beach type read. 3.5/5 stars


Love and Other Words
Settling in to life as a pedatrics resident and fiancee of a successful, slightly older man, Macy is suddenly upended by a chance encounter with her teenage love, Elliot. Even after a decade of not speaking to each other, their chemistry is immediately evident - especially in contrast to Macy's current relationship - and so it inevitably brings up questions of what might have been, had some (as yet unrevealed) major incident not suddenly end their relationship. This one uses "then" and "now" alternating story lines to explore how the relationship developed from their time reading together as kids, what incident led to the heartbreak, and how now 10 years later Macy and Elliot are working through memories that have been clouded all these years by the "what might have been" feelings, along with exploring the "meant to be" feelings of potentially rekindling their love. I will admit, this is not a story that has really stuck with me (I read it almost a year ago and had to do some major plot summary reading to remember anything about it), but I had a seriously enjoyable reading experience during it - again, a great vacation type of read with being light and romancey but not overly fluffy - so it still gets: 3.5/5 stars


The Immortalists
Four siblings hear of a traveling psychic who has set up shop in an apartment nearby, and they sneak out one summer day to visit her, and one at a time, they each learn her prediction for the date and time of their death. From there, the story follows one sibling at a time as they approach the date they were given - and through how they choose to live their lives in light of this knowledge, the reader can't help but wonder whether they would want to have this knowledge or not (for me: not). The siblings struggle with the predictions in their own ways, with the career choices they make, and especially with some self-destructive paths that they set their live on, and we're left to wonder whether the predictions actually reflect fate, or whether they end up driving their own destiny to this end point because of how they are emotionally responding to the idea that they might die at a certain day/time. Perhaps if they had never seen this psychic, they would have all chosen different paths for themselves, and their lives would have turned out very differently. A super fascinating premise, and it got me thinking a lot - but it also had some flaws, I thought, with a couple of the siblings just not being as well developed, and one in particular just not acting in a way that seemed believable to the rest of the story. I did like how the siblings all had very different career paths, so each section involved many different interesting things, from the life of a magician to the life of a scientist researching longevity, which kept it engaging even when the plot lines might have felt a little disconnected. 3.5/5 stars 


A Place for Us

This book would most likely be described as a character-driven story of complicated family relationships, but I think the last section, in which one of the family members in particular reflects on how a relationship with an estranged child came to be, and how parenting decisions might have gotten it to that state. This is not a linearly told story, but is more snapshots of the life of this family through time, showing how the ways families choose to respond to each other in situations can mold their relationships going forward. So the snippets of narrative about the family's life look at things like the parents' arranged marriage and immigration from India, the interactions of their three children growing up, how the family responded to 9/11 and also to the death of a family friend, how the children handle the growing up in the dichotomy of American culture and also the Islamic Indian culture of their parents, etc. Through these snapshots we see the strains in some of the sibling/parent relationships that lead to an estrangement, and then how the family responds to that brother's return home for his sister's wedding. It reminded me in structure and emotional feeling of Ann Patchett's Commonwealth, but with an added cultural element that I really liked. And while non-linear, character-driven things are not usually my first choice, this one is very engaging, and that last section that I mentioned is just such a moving and empathetic and beautiful look at the emotions of a parent looking at their grown children that I still can't stop thinking about it. A great read. 4.5/5 stars




I liked the alternate reality type of story lines better than I expected to in both of the cases above - but I'm not sure I can think of any other examples from previous books I've read, besides time travel type books like 11/22/63 or The Time Traveler's Wife. Any ideas from your archives?


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08 January 2019

wearing lately: winter uniform

Last week I mentioned my conundrum of how to enjoy the post-Christmas getting dressed when it's just regular winter for months to come. Right now I'm gravitating toward a solution of a simple uniform: jeans + sweater + boots.



Sticking to a basic uniform might sound like it would be boring, but actually it works perfectly for simplifying the getting dressed process but also leaving room for some day-to-day creativity within it. I am enjoying playing around with it with different textures and boots that give me the feel of cozy but polished that I'd like to go about my winter days feeling...  Along those lines I'm loving the wedge boots to mix waterproof practicality/warmth along with some style, and also I'm especially into sweaters with some texture and/or marled/flecked coloring. It feels just a bit more luxe, and more interesting of course, and makes an outfit work pretty well on its own without needing much accessorizing or fuss.

And since I'm always cold, even with a sweater, I've taken to wearing my bigger scarves as shawls around the house, which actually has the added benefit of adding a bit of extra personality to the uniform. Stay tuned for a variation on this theme weekly until about April - except for when I get to escape to Florida for a bit!


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04 January 2019

19 in 2019

I had already enjoyed the concept of an "18 in 2018" type list when I got to experience the enjoyment of many of the items on my own list. But after spending the last week of December getting some bonus fun by being part of crossing off some items on others' lists - plus spending New Year's Day talking with my family about what would be on their 19 in 2019 lists, I'm completely obsessed with these right now.


It's just so fun to hear about the ways people are excited to enhance their enjoyment and productivity in life. We're all ready to jump on board with others' lists - and we already all checked off one of the "go in the hot tub 19 times" bits of my dad's list!

So my 2019 list is a mixture of that again - some productivity type things that I'd like to make sure to finally get around to (such as: sorry, piano, for possessing you for 8+ years and moving you twice without ever getting you tuned), some wellness-enhancing things, and then lots of little (and a couple slightly bigger) things that will all definitely add some bonus fun and joy to the year to come.
  1. do a 30-day yoga challenge
  2. mail something to someone every week
  3. drink 80+ ounces of water per day
  4. complete the Modern Mrs. Darcy 2019 reading challenge
  5. start a new bullet journal
  6. work on photo albums quarterly
  7. take Hendrik to a musical
  8. go trail running
  9. find the right white blouse
  10. listen to Trevor Noah's Born a Crime on audiobook
  11. read The Lion, the Witch & the Wardrobe to Hendrik
  12. get the piano tuned
  13. visit Cincy and/or Indy
  14. try meditation
  15. check an item off my life list
  16. do a new closet inventory
  17. try a new restaurant in Grand Rapids
  18. visit a new Indie bookstore
  19. submit photos to websites for an online home tour

What good stuff are you planning for 2019? I'd love to see your list if you've put together anything like this!


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03 January 2019

pin to present: Tollhouse cookie pie - check!

I really had fun working through (most of) the items on the 18 in 2018 goal list that I made last January - but given how much I love any variation on a chocolate chip cookie, it's kind of shocking that #8, bake a Tollhouse chocolate chip cookie pie, wasn't the first item I tackled. But a yummy dessert for cozy night in is my kind of New Year's Eve, so on December 31 this one got checked off!


I bookmarked this recipe after seeing it in late 2017 on The Everygirl (because of the aforementioned love of all things chocolate chip cookie, of course), and I thought 2018 surely would have some kind of celebratory occasion for baking it. Gotta admit that it was a semi Pinterest fail - I baked it for longer than the recipe called for, but it still was incredibly gooey. Nothing a little time in the freezer couldn't fix (if there's anything I love more than chocolate chip cookies it's frozen ones), but tasty as it is, my previously shared Pinterest-inspired cookie pie recipe is still my fave.

With that, I thought it would be fun to recap the rest of the 2018 list - before I share my 2019 one tomorrow! (Bold ones are completed.)

  1. Learn to apply eyeliner well - love my It cosmetics superhero liner find
  2. Have a one item in/one item out closet policy - got rid of more than I brought in, actually.
  3. Get a new stamp in my passport - visited Quebec for the first time
  4. Train for a race - PR in the Tulip Time 5k, plus Hendrik's first (mini) race
  5. Check one big house project off the list - whole exterior got painted, plus a new door color!
  6. Hold a garage sale
  7. Do a wine tasting - family fun, plus we found a go-to wine to stock at home
  8. Bake a chocolate chip Tollhouse pie
  9. Visit Cincinnati friends - visited my best Cincinnati friend in her new city, so it totally counts
  10. Read a classic - Anna Karenina
  11. Plan a friend date once per month - well, I did more than I would have...
  12. Submit applications to websites for home tour feature - moving to 2019 list
  13. Bike outside in each month of the year - for a total of 1777 miles!
  14. Record all new books read with Hendrik - found some new faves, yay
  15. Go to the symphony with Peter - thanks, mom & dad for the birthday dinner/concert
  16. Design a big boy bedroom - not implemented yet, but it's designed!
  17. Read 85 books - 93, actually
  18. Create Hendrik's year 2-3 year photo albums - whew, that was a lot of work but love the results

Pretty proud of how much I did on this list, but even more, I love how this got me to do a mix of fun and also productive things that made me have an even better 2018 than I might have. Can't wait for what I've come up with along these lines in 2019!

02 January 2019

currently


choosing: which book to read next from my Christmas haul... I'm especially excited for The Perfect Nanny and The Year of Living Danishly (I have 2 work trips to Copenhagen in 2019!), but also looking forward to checking out The Miniaturist, especially after seeing that there's a PBS Masterpiece adaptation of it.

tidying: my office and the craft/wrapping supply closet that's in my office - this whole area became gift storage and wrapping zone for a solid 5-6 weeks leading up to Christmas, and I'm ready to start fresh and clean after that (fun) chaos.

resolving: to do a 30-day yoga challenge sometime this year. I've already identified some stretches/poses that make a huge difference in how my body feels, and I've heard several times (on podcasts - where else?) of people trying out a 30-day challenge and what a difference that makes in solidifying the routine of doing this stuff that's so good for the body. I'll probably do a combination of classes at my gym, routines in the Nike Training Club app I like, and then also trying out some Yoga with Adrienne videos (she has several specific 30-day challenges).

exploring: spring break destinations! Last year Peter was on call during Hendrik's week off, so we couldn't do any travel - but he's got vacation time reserved already this year, and I'm dreaming of somewhere hot, sunny, and all-inclusive. Pretty sure I can convince these two that the Bahamas would be a good time.

refreshing: my makeup bag. A new year always seems like a great time to toss the products that have been opened for a long time or that I never use, and also to replace the old goopy mascara tubes (this one by Honest Beauty is my current go-to for the price and the performance). Also a good time to start fresh with a new toothbrush!


Now I want to hear what you're currently up to as we kick off 2019! Link up below, and visit some other linkers to make some new friends for the New Year... And then come on back for February 6, when we'll talk what we're currently anticipating, going, making, watching, and wearing.

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01 January 2019

2018 in review

Happy New Year! As do many, I now have a fun little year-end tradition of running the "best 9" for my Instagram account, and for this year it was so fun to see pop up on the collage all of these things that were events/happenings that I had already been thinking would make my personal "top moments" type of recap. So, without further ado, my best 9, and my 2018 in review:


Best trip:
  • Palm Springs: it's hard to beat sunshine and 80 in February when you're from Michigan, and it was also the perfect mix of anniversary getaway, pool relaxation/reading, and outdoorsy hiking/biking time. 
  • Mont Tremblant was a close runner up, with even better biking!

Best recipe:
  • Vadouvan shrimp & sweet chili sauce: we tried out Blue Apron this year, and that meant I made some way fancier/yummier fish dishes than I would have otherwise. We had several we loved, but this shrimp was super easy to make yet super flavorful - and it was so good it even won over Hendrik, who had immediately turned up his nose when he heard shrimp was for dinner...
  • Of recipes that got added to my regular rotation though, the cauliflower chickpea tacos and easy chicken gyros were clear winners.

Best shoes:
  • Soludos embroidered mules: I acquired several pairs of excellent shoes this year (here's looking at you, Sorel sandals and boots) but these just made me so happy every time I put them on my feet that they win the category. (And now you can get them on super sale - do it!)



Best outfit:
  • Jumping in: tried out the jumpsuit trend and loved it.
  • Also in being surprised by something new, the feeling kerchief-y look is a close runner-up.

Best book:
  • Goodbye, Vitamin: okay, it's super hard to narrow down a #1, but of my top picks for the year, this one was just such a surprise delight (having bought it on clearance on a whim), and has such a great cover, that I'm giving it this slot.
  • Non-fiction winner goes to an author that the above echoes in several (good) ways: David Sedaris, with his new release Calypso.

Best ice cream:
  • Milkjam Creamery: yeah, ice cream gets its own category, I love it so much. And I'm pretty sure the best of my life came on my trip to Minneapolis last summer, where I had the Ridin' Duuurty flavor (oreo milk w/ oreo chunks and salted peanut butter) at Milkjam, and I died and went to heaven.

Big achievements:
  • Ran a 5k PR of 20:53 - and Hendrik also did his first race.
  • Read 93 books.
  • Hendrik learned to read, and got a library card!

Firsts:
  • Movie in the theater with Hendrik - we saw The Grinch, which he loved almost as much as planting his face in the bucket of popcorn. 
  • Musical with Hendrik - and he is still obsessed with The Lion King.
  • Staples for a head laceration - in past years we've had ER visits for stitches and a broken arm, but this year's ER visit was a first for staples... Happily, Hendrik handled it like a champ, as seen in the ER selfie above.

Highlights/big events:
  • Saw Hamilton - it was sooooooo good.
  • Crossed 3 items off my life list: visit Palm Springs, record a bike ride on Strava in another country, read a Russian classic (Anna Karenina).
  • Celebrated Hendrik's 5th birthday with an arty party.
  • Got the whole house exterior painted, and changed our front door to this fabulous turquoise blue.
  • Got a fab new road bike, rode 1,777 miles this year across my various bikes, and rode outdoors in every month - in Michigan!


Here's hoping for a 2019 with many more good miles and musicals - and I hope yours is equally filled with things you love!