27 November 2020

five things Friday: gifts that keep on giving edition

Hope everyone had a good (if abnormal) Thanksgiving. Now I am ready to fully bring on the holiday season decor and music and treats to bring some cheer to these weird times - getting the tree soon, and I will probably finish up my Christmas gift shopping with a couple of online orders while there are good sales. But I'm not here to talk about sales today - there are tons of other blog and Instagram posts on the subject of Black Friday, I'm sure. Instead, let's go a little anti-material... 

In these quarentimes, we've had plenty of reminder of what really matters in life. Don't get me wrong, I most definitely will enjoy getting/giving Christmas presents this year, but it also feels like a year that should be less about stuff. In that spirit, here are 5 ideas for some really nice gifts of the variety that keep on giving, rather than eventually clutter up a house

1. Sign them up as a supporter/patron of their favorite podcast: many podcasts have a Patreon or other support club. Contributing financially in your giftee's name helps fund their favorite show for future episodes, and often it also comes with some bonus exclusive content, which you know they'd enjoy because it's their favorite podcast!

2. Gift a NY Times online puzzle subscription: how perfect is this as we head into winter in quarentimes? Yearly access to all of the NYT online puzzle games is only $40, and it's not just crossword puzzles - they have so many other fun ones that are well crafted (I love spelling bee especially). We get the Sunday paper, so just a smattering of puzzles per week, but I would love this so much!

3. Pick from a donation catalog and give a gift in their honor: there are so many places that offer tangible things (school supplies, meals, vaccinations, clean drinking water, even cows and sheep) you can select that will be given directly to someone in need of it. Pick an item that reminds you of your giftee, and donate in their name. Most places will give you a card or a printout explaining the gift, such as Heifer International, UNICEF, and World Vision,

4. Support local bookstores with a LibroFM subscription: give the gift of audiobooks, with a 1, 3, 6, or 12 month credits subscription that gives profits to local bookstores (instead of Amazon via Audible!) at the same time. 

5. Get a giftcard from a local restaurant: I mentioned this in my "shop small" gift guide, but it bears mentioning again as a gift that does double good - supports a business that (if you live anywhere cold like I do) may well be struggling in the coming months and gives your recipient a night off from cooking for some yummy takeout. It's nice to have a change of pace like that when we're home every night.


Enjoy the rest of the weekend - I have some stockings and garlands to go hang up now!

25 November 2020

staying in: recommendations for holiday spirit

Kind of feeling like it's going to be a long long weekend with how much I've already been home with a certain 7-year-old lately, but I'm doing my best to think up some things to make it feel a little more weekend-y, like planning some hikes and maybe a bonfire with our awesome new solo stove (thanks, mom and dad!). And most definitely diving into the holiday spirit: Christmas tree, wrapping presents, listening to seasonal music, the whole works. That'll definitely feel like a change of pace from the past few weeks at home!

I'm not usually a huge Christmas holiday movie or book person, but there are a few things I've encountered lately that have me in the mood for even more. Nor am I usually a person to engage with Christmas stories or discussion before Thanksgiving - but in a Thanksgiving break where we're all supposed to be staying home, we might as well plug in the twinkle lights and curl up on the couch with a holiday something to listen to, watch, or read. A few suggestions for starting off the holiday spirit, for pretty much any age...

  • Dash and Lily: it's cheesy YA holiday fare in the form of an 8-episode Netflix series, and it turns out that was just what my life needed right now. It also includes several scenes in a Christmas-decorated Strand bookstore that gives a glorious taste of the before-Covid times. I loved how the story unfolded across the episodes, and it was just a nice feel-good, snow- and holiday music-infused few hours.
  • The Vanderbeekers of 141st Street: this middle grade book takes place in the days leading up to Christmas, as the passel of siblings in this family try to convince their landlord not to cancel their family's lease. And along the way you just get so much delightful holiday spirit through their enthusiasm and creativity, and through their close-knit Brooklyn neighborhood. It's very charming.
  • Season's readings: this episode of the From the Front Porch podcast pairs books and holiday movies that have similar feels, and I loved all of the ideas, as one who hasn't watched/read a ton of holiday selections!
  • Olivia Helps with Christmas: which we actually won't read till December, but I picked it up from the library as part of my book-a-day advent calendar planning, and I'm already excited because Olivia is the spunkiest and best.

 

The book I'm planning to cozy up with - The Hunting Party - isn't exactly Christmas spirit, since it's supposed to be an Agatha Christie-like mystery, but it takes place over the Christmas holidays, so at least it'll have the weather vibes? And what Christmas movie should I watch next?

Meanwhile, have a happy and healthy Thanksgiving!

24 November 2020

blogger style: one item, two ways

A brief break from the series of outerwear outfits that I started up last week, because (1) it's one item, two ways style week with Dana so I've got a black cardigan to showcase, and (2) we're doubling down on quarentimes, and sometimes a girl just needs to wallow a little in not going out and thusly giving up actual pants. 

 

The cozy black cardigan is a great wardrobe staple, since you can throw it on over pretty much anything and be both cute and warm. I've worn it with jeans, of course, and if it were actually a time for dressing up, it could be really cute over a flowy patterned dress with tights too. But for now, I love this long version for wearing with leggings. Looking forward to seeing how Dana styles her cropped version today though, to see how this similar item might manage to be altogether different!

As for the leggings, I'm back to the "I could do yoga at any time!" style because that's how the schedule is looking these days with Hendrik finishing up his 2-week quarantine after exposure to a covid-positive classmate (happy and lucky to report that we still have had no symptoms here), a 5-day Thanksgiving break at home coming up, and then Monday not being the return to school that we expected as the elementary schools in our district will be going to all-virtual for at least 10 days after the break. Back to juggling the virtual school + regular job + popping onto the Peloton app in my little studio for a physical/sanity break when the opportunity arises. Thus being ready to whip off the cardigan and be in workout clothes at a moment's notice!



Sharing on Style SixTrend Spin.

23 November 2020

counting down to Christmas

I've posted about our book-a-day advent calendar several times before, but I thought it was worth a highlight again during the quarentimes - because with much more staying home and much less in the way of holiday gatherings, what better way to spend some time marking the holiday season than by cozying up by the tree and reading together. We certainly have the time for it.

I actually wasn't sure at first about doing it again at our house though, because Hendrik's a little old for some of our collection of holiday picture books, and even if he is a fast reader, he can't manage a chapter book a day... But he was talking like he assumed it was of course on for this year - so I'm pulling out the collection we have amassed over the last 4 years of doing this, requesting a few books from the library for curbside pickup, and ordering a couple of new selections for fun. This really is a favorite holiday tradition, so I'm glad he wanted to do it, and it's something we highly recommend. 

Here are some suggestions of books we own or have checked out from the library to include in our calendar in years past - some board + picture books, early reader books + chapter books, and fun + activity books (I plan these strategically, so that he opens them up on the weekend or once Christmas break has started, and then we get some bonus quiet time that day...):



And then there's nothing more to it besides wrapping them up however you like and labeling with numbers for each day, whether with stickers or tags or just writing the numbers on. I love picking out a different wrapping paper for it each year and displaying them on our shelves in the playroom - adds a lot to the festive decor.

With the quarentimes, I'm going all-in on the countdown to Christmas. Since staying at home is what we're doing, might as well make it as festive as possible - and also maybe ease a little the sadness of the holidays not being what any of us want them to be. So I got the entire family advent calendars, which we've never done before: nail polishes for me (sadly no longer in stock but this makeup one looks fun too, candies for Peter, Harry Potter Legos for Hendrik, and even dog treats for Ginger. Plus our church will have an outdoor wreath/candle making time so we can have the supplies at home for the kids' weekly Zoom gatherings during Advent. And also I've got a 7-year-old around who would be ready to start the countdown to Christmas TODAY, he loves it so much. That'll give anyone some spirit.

20 November 2020

5 things Friday: Thanksgiving for three edition

Even before the huge new Covid spike - and now, as of this week, further restrictions on restaurants/schools/gatherings in Michigan - we had already resigned ourselves to the sad fact that Thanksgiving is not going to be the usual occasion with 30 of our loved ones this year. Or anyone outside of our household for that matter. If you're thinking about being indoors and eating with anyone who is not part of your pod - please see some of the linked articles below, and re-think). So, I've been planning a Thanksgiving for three. Some ideas, in case your household is still figuring out the approach to scaling back and staying home:

1. Sheet pan meal for two (I'm sure it'll feed our 3): isn't this a brilliant idea? You've got turkey, stuffing, potatoes, and veggies all on 2 sheet pans. I have already bought a small turkey breast and have it ready in the freezer, and when I was Googling a bit to figure out how to cook it, I came across this. Pretty much don't need any other recipes for the day!

2. Easy turkey gravy: did I say I don't need any other recipes? Well, I must admit I have never in my life made gravy, but Peter LOVES it. So this'll be my chance to learn, I guess!

3. Turkey napkin rings: usually I help my mom with all of the tablescapes for our multi-table gathering (we have a lot of family!), but at home we usually just eat at the kitchen island. Maybe we'll get really fancy and move over to the dining room table for the occasion, and H could color in these printable napkin rings for us.

4. Mini skillet apple crisp: we're not really pumpkin pie people, but besides the time with family, one thing we'll be missing is my grandma's excellent apple pie. No sense in trying to recreate it (not least because 3 people can't eat that much pie), but this mini apple crisp looks yummy and easy and just the right size.

5. Oreo turkeys: but really, I'm a chocolate dessert person in my heart of hearts, and these might be fun to make with still-in-quarantine Hendrik next week.


Okay, clearly it really stinks not to be able to have a normal Thanksgiving. I'm sad about it, you're sad about it, we're all sad (mad?!) about it - but let me get on my Covid soapbox again and say that's the way it has to be right now. Having Hendrik home in quarantine after being exposed to a classmate who tested positive has driven that home for me. There is risk in getting together with our family, and that risk spreads to our broader community the more we gather.

  • Normal Thanksgiving is the antithesis to the main pandemic safety rule: don't spend time indoors with people outside your household. Important to note: "talking, eating, and other merrymaking don’t magically become safe when they happen inside your home. The coronavirus spreads through the air, so—no matter where you are, even if you’re at your grandma’s house, or your best friend’s—breathing the same air as other people for extended periods of time is risky. Your best bet is to avoid indoor gatherings altogether. They can be made marginally safer through testing, masking, and limiting the number of attendees, but none of these methods is foolproof... A negative COVID-19 test is not a 'get out of jail free' card; it’s unclear how well the tests work on people who aren’t feeling sick. Masks don’t do much good if people spend several hours together in an unventilated room. And several public-health experts recently told The Washington Post that even small, casual get-togethers are significantly contributing to the spread of the virus." (That's definitely been reported as the case in my part of Michigan - take note, people!!)
  • Cancel Thanksgiving: this is a moment for creativity. Yeah, we're all sick of Zoom, but also so many people are sick. We need to be careful. We keep breaking records for daily diagnoses, and the positivity rates in many places are at their highest, which means now more than ever it's likely that if you gather with several people from outside of your household, someone could be spreading the virus. Even if you're not worried about your own health, you should be worried about others. Not to mention that many hospitals are already full, which means that in addition you and your loved ones might not have access to care for all of the other things that people need hospitals for. So we've gotta stop spreading Covid around!
  • Evidence that Thanksgiving could easily be a superspreader event? Happened already in Canada.
  • CDC guidelines say not to travel for the holiday, and governors and doctors and more are begging people not to get together with anyone outside of their household. Again, really stinks to not see your family - but if it makes you feel any better, I live 5 minutes from mine and we're also not having a Thanksgiving meal.

Let's all keep each other healthy and alive so that we can have our regular holidays again next year - and keep our sights on the recent good news about vaccines. And the fact that soon we'll have a president WHO ACTUALLY CARES whether people get sick and die. Something to be thankful for, indeed.

19 November 2020

gift grids 2020: covid Christmas

In my family we've joked about everyone getting at least one "Covid birthday" (funny how for a while there we thought it would just be people with birthdays in the spring...), and now we're all getting a Covid Christmas - it's been a weird and hard year, and that's just going to continue into the holiday season, unfortunately. So for my next gift grid guide, I was inspired to lean into the reality, coming up with gift ideas to make time at home special for your loved ones, even though we can't gather together for normal holiday traditions this year, and I've even added some ideas for ways to safely + social-distantly connect.

for the ladies: Olive and June, manicure kit | Etsy, spice jars + labels | Naadam, cashmere hoodie + joggers | Anthropologie, hot water bottle | for the guys: New York Times, mini crosswords | Ryobi, power washer | L.L. Bean, shearling slippers | Solo Stove, bonfire backyard bundle | for the friends & relations: Areaware, pattern puzzle | Target + Kikkerland, wine + cork fairy lights | Nordstrom, plush throw | Aura, digital frame | for the little lady: Bliss Gardens, DIY terrarium kit | Crate&Kids, Palm Springs playhouse | Old Navy, sherpa pullover | Minted, personalized stationery | for the little guy: Catan Studio, Catan Junior | Crate&Kids, illuminated globe | Target, sherpa-lined plaid shirt | Popsockets, flexible phone stand

Since we will be having plenty of more time spent at home, with more lockdowns going into effect and also winter coming for a lot of us, the first column is suggestions for everyone to have a nice solo indoor hobby to keep them occupied. Then we have things to spruce up their space (which actually also can be nice, soothing activities in and of themselves, including the wine drinking, which then turns into fun decor with the twinkle light cork to go in the empty bottle!), and things to be cozy while hanging around the house. 

The final column is the connection column - hot water bottles and fire pits would be nice ways to warm people up outdoors, to try to continue some of the safe backyard gatherings (before the snow flies, anyway). For kids, stationery to write letters to loved ones and tripods to hold a phone for FaceTime dates would be good ways to connect with family and friends (even better if you also give a tripod to their grandparent or friend as well, and get some special chat times on the calendar). And the digital frame is a really cool idea for being "with" your family, as you can download an app and have various family members upload photos whenever they like, to appear on the frame in the home of the parent/grandparent/etc.

Still brainstorming other ideas to connect and replace our usual parties/cookie decorating gatherings/etc. since those are out of the question at the moment. For my household, it will probably include baking cookies and leaving them on porches, perhaps setting up some FaceTime house tours to show off Christmas decorations to each other even though we can't visit in person, and sending our Christmas cards early too, to bring cheer to mailboxes ASAP. What ideas have you come up with for safe holiday celebrations?


Sharing on The Other Side of the Road's gift guide party.

18 November 2020

kid reads: adventure stories

Might not be a surprise, given how much I like to read and talk about what I'm reading, but my kid is quite a reading machine too - enough that with some frequency we need to find something he can read next. In these endeavors, I have found that the most successful picks (i.e. the ones he's most excited to pick up) have at least some element of fantasy and always an adventure/quest type of story - whether it's an entirely fictional world, or set in the real world with magical elements - and often has a real underdog coming out on top in their journey. Harry Potter is the obvious go-to in this category, and he is obsessed with the 3 books that we have read aloud so far - but if you're like us and are looking for additional recommendations in this arena for an elementary school kid, here are some of Hendrik's recent favorites:

 

I must admit that I've read only one of these (The Wild Robot Escapes); Peter has read On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness aloud to him (he's now reading it again on his own), but otherwise these are ones he has read to himself. I trust the recommendation sources for all of them though, including the Currently Reading podcast and the From the Front Porch podcast. For reference, H is in 2nd grade but reads pretty well above grade level; these would all be good picks for later elementary school kids on their own, and for early elementary school kids they'd be great read-alouds even if their solo reading isn't quite at this level.

Lightfall: a beautifully drawn graphic novel about "Bea and Cad, two unlikely friends who get swept up in an epic quest to save their world from falling into eternal darkness." It's for older/more advanced readers, and less of a silly approach, than graphic novel series like Dog Man (which I was excited to find, because he loves graphic novels, and while I don't particularly put limits on his reading, since he reads so much and pretty widely, I do like it when he's got something with a little more substance or something to challenge his personal reading level).

On the Edge of the Dark Sea of Darkness: the first book in The Wingfeather Saga, a fantasy-adventure series about the Igiby family, who are fleeing the evil Fangs of Dang, who have conquered their country, while seeking their rightful place in the world and uncovering the secret history of their family, which turns out to be less ordinary than they had thought. It has some silliness to it (such as: their world has creatures called "toothy cows") but still a great quest story; so far the 2nd and 3rd books seem to have less of that. The made-up lands and quests almost make me think of Narnia - all of the books have maps of their lands, which H loves.

The Wild Robot Escapes: the follow-up to The Wild Robot (which I think everyone should read) featuring several of the same delightful characters, but this time more of an adventure/quest story in trying to figure out how Roz is going to get back to her faraway island and animal friends. Hendrik loved the story in this one even more than The Wild Robot, I think because of that quest focus.

A Flicker of Courage: another adventure story in which some underdog kids are on a quest to save the day - sounds like this one is a bit tongue-in-cheek (the evil leader turns anyone who speaks out against him into lizards or squirrels). The pacing, adventure, and doses of magic drew Hendrik right in. There's now a book 2 and he's definitely interested in picking up more!

The Land of Stories: this one actually was not Hendrik's favorite, because he's not particularly into classic fairy tales and thus didn't get some of the references. But if you have a kid who is familiar with them, this seems like a bit more of an advanced version of The Magic Tree House series, where a pair of siblings travels via a magical book into fairy tale lands and meets various characters (friendly and nefarious!) and has to figure out how to navigate back to the real world.

 

The beauty of these is that they're all part of a series, which most definitely takes the pressure off from choosing a next read if your little reader enjoys...  

If you're looking for some good read-alouds for kids, ages ranging from maybe 4-10, I have a roundup of 5 that we enjoyed doing with Hendrik here; if you have a beginning reader, here are some of the early chapter books Hendrik enjoyed.

17 November 2020

wearing lately: coat outfits

Pretty sure I mention it in a style post at least once every winter, how this time of year my coat basically is my outfit (dubbed the coat-fit, in fact) because I can't go anywhere without one. And in quarentimes it is going to be even more true: from now until who knows when (a vaccine?), I don't think anybody aside from my immediate family and Zoom calls will be seeing me without one. Good thing I have quite a collection. 

So I thought I'd give each of them a feature over the next few weeks! First up, the quilted down jacket. It has to come first because Michigan weather quickly gets too cold for it - but at Halloween when we had a couple of neighbor kids to our backyard for a masked/distanced candy hunt, it made for a perfect complement to my casual-cute gingham + sweatshirt layers (and matching mask, of course!).

I love this style of down jacket with the quilting and gold buttons because it adds a little style to the practicality of a down coat. (Very useful when you want it to be your outfit, obviously.) I've had it for several years, but here are some options along these lines: 

12 November 2020

gift grids 2020: shop small

I don't know about you, but holiday shopping exhortations make me feel a little weird this year - I mean, I am plenty materialistic, but the usual big consumerist push feels off when we're in a pandemic and holiday gatherings just aren't going to be happening (and don't even try to get me to buy dressy holiday outfits - there should not be fancy holiday parties taking place right now!). Not to mention that the economic situation for a lot of people is not great and getting worse. On the other hand, knowing we're not going to have our usual time together with family for the holidays also makes me want to spend more effort and care with gift giving, to make sure at least that part is special.

And as far as gift guides, I'm feeling the same conflict. I usually have a lot of fun making them, but I also feel a little weird about it in the current times... so I decided I'm going to keep with my "gift grid" format that I love, but focus on quarentimes-friendly things for 2020: supporting small businesses, suggesting gifts for being literally home for the holidays, and of course presenting a whole guide of books - as usual, because they always make the best gifts (and also will come in handy for a long winter indoors). 

for the ladies: Rose+Co, herstory candle | Estelle, colored stemware | Inkwell threads, books embroidered sweatshirt | your local coffee shop, specialty roast coffee beans | for the guys: Letterfolk, taco passport | Rebel, artisan citrus juicer | Lisa Congdon, peace and love socks | your local brewery, fancy beer + logo glass | for the friends & relations: Sunday Soap Company, sunshine poppy soap | Letterfolk, customizable tile mat | Jones Market, mask clip necklace (similarsimilar) | local farmers market/CSA, gift certificate | for the little lady: Rebel, hair clip set | House of Noa, mom + mini yoga mats | Smarty Girl, astronaut leggings | your local fro-yo/ice cream shop, gift certificate | for the little guy: CW Pencil Enterprise, pencils for kids sampler set | Tweed Outfitters, micro maxi scooter | Water for Art, Hogwarts tee | your local candy shop, gummy candies

First up, here are some suggestions for supporting small businesses with your gifting - these are mostly items that are available online to ship across the country, but I'm sure you could also come up with plenty of local-to-you businesses to purchase similar things from. Even if it's something that's available from Target or another chain store, maybe you can purchase it from a small business instead (such as the scooter). 

I'm posting this guide earlier than I usually start, since some are handmade items/Etsy purchases, which tend to take a bit of extra time, plus we're all being warned about potential shipping delays in general this holiday season. So I've come up with ideas to purchase from small business for the range of people in your life, across the categories of stocking stuffers, wearable items, big-ticket gifts to put under the tree, and local treats to enjoy.

Speaking of local treats: Restaurants are an area where I'm especially focusing my own gift-giving, picking up gift cards to various places around town to give to teachers, etc. in place of physical gifts this year. Restaurants are definitely going to be suffering here with weather not conducive to having outdoor dining, so here's a good way to bolster their sales when I'm not doing so in person - and also give friends and family the gift of takeout at the same time!


So, that's round one - stay tuned next week for gifts that will make your loved ones cozy in their homes. 

But tell me, how are you feeling about gift giving this year, and also about encountering gift guides? Are you starting shopping early? I still stand by my ideas from last year, if you're looking for others...


Post uses a few affiliate links that may earn me a small commission through a qualifying purchase - but this is intended to be about supporting any small/local businesses you can!

11 November 2020

reading lately: Austen-tatious

I'm a Jane Austen fan from way back - admittedly I came to her via some BBC productions even before I read any of her work (I was young!) - and can still remember how tense that first viewing of the Colin Firth version of P&P was when I wasn't sure if and how Lizzie and Mr. Darcy would end up together. I have since read the book several times on my own and also as part of my favorite-ever English major class, called "The British Novel". But I digress... My love of Jane of course makes me a sucker for any retelling or homage to her work, and here I've got a round-up of great options no matter what genre you enjoy - historical fiction, contemporary romance, YA, even middle grade.

The Jane Austen Society

In a fictionalized version of 1940s Chawton, a small village in England famous for being the final home of Jane Austen (I've been there!), an unlikely group of people - from a war widow to the local doctor to a shy farmer to an American movie star - come together to protect Austen's legacy. They all have their own reasons for loving Jane Austen but also for needing this new-found community as they create the Jane Austen Society. It sounds a bit cheesy, and that it is (plus the characters' "spontaneous" dialogue about their love/knowledge of Austen is a bit overdone) - yet I also found myself quite drawn in and comforted by this feel-good read. It would 100% make for a Masterpiece miniseries that I would adore; focusing on the time period with the setting and clothing, and focusing on the characters and their quiet struggles and budding relationships would make for a very compelling period drama. So if you like period dramas, talking about Jane Austen's history, and feel-good stories - pick this one up!

3.5/5 stars, selected from the MMD 2020 summer reading guide

 

The Next Great Jane

Jane Brannen is a 12-year-old who aspires to be the "next great Jane" (Austen); she lives with her ocean biologist father in a tiny coastal town in Maine, and her wildest dreams are coming true: a famous author is coming to their off-the-beaten-track town, and she's going to hear her speak and learn the keys to literary success! But the night doesn't go as planned (a hurricane hits, she has to deal with the most annoying boy she's ever met - oh, and her mom breezes in unexpectedly from Hollywood), which sets into motion a different start to the school year than Jane would have expected, challenging her writing, her relationship with her parents, and her love of her home and community. This middle-grade read is an homage to Jane Austen not in trying to be a re-telling of any particular piece of her work, but by incorporating some similar scenes, interactions, characters, and names from all of her work, as well as the general spirit of her writing. This made it a delight - super fun to pick out all the bits that were familiar from Austen, but the story was sweet and the characters great on their own too. The book also reminded me of Julie Murphy's Dear Sweet Pea, with the humorous and heartfelt tone, and with the aspiring writer protagonist of a similar age, who is navigating her parents' divorce/dating, the way friendships change and romantic feelings increase in middle school, etc. It's definitely geared toward 10- to 12-year-old girls, but a very fun read (palate cleanser!) for grown-ups who like Jane Austen and Julie Murphy, spunky protagonists, charming small-town settings, and sweet middle-grade reads. Also loved that while it's about a girl who wants to be a writer, she also learns a lot about science and climate change - yeah, girls + STEAM!

4/5 stars, heard about on From the Front Porch

 

Dangerous Alliance

Lady Victoria Aston is an unusually educated and independent-minded young woman in 1800s England. She loves her life of horseback riding around her family's grounds, helping with the management of the estate, and of course, reading her Jane Austen novels. But then her parents insist that it's time for her to get married, and marry just the right kind of man, because it turns out the estate is not doing so well after all. Meanwhile, her older, married sister has become a bit distant, and her neighbor and former best friend Tom shows back up, now a handsome young man, but there's a weird strain between them. Normally Vicky would turn to her favorite Austen heroines to figure out what to do, but with these new circumstances, even Jane doesn't seem to have the answer. Part romance, part mystery, part feminist twist on historical fiction - overall this YA romp is a bit of a category mash-up, but that made it quite fun (f not a tad fluffy feeling at times). If you've read To Have and To Hoax, also a fun Jane Austen-era setting book), I would say you might enjoy this one as a far-less-steamy historical romance counterpart.

3.5/5 stars, BOTM club pick (back when they had the YA club, which I kinda miss!)

 

Pride

Set in current-day Brooklyn, this is billed as a "Pride & Prejudice remix" - and what I interpret "remix" as is that you shouldn't necessarily be looking for every P&P scene and character, but the general structure and themes are brought in to tell a story about a girl who has pride in her hood but who also is learning to be open to others, and to not make assumptions about where they're coming from. Zuri Benitez is the second of 5 sisters in a boisterous family; she wants to go to Howard University when she graduates from high school but fully intends to return home after, because she has great pride in her Bushwick neighborhood, her close-knit family, and her Afro-Latino roots. When the wealthy Darcy family renovates and then moves into the house across the street, she is upset by the gentrification of her neighborhood and the changes that will continue to bring - and she especially can't stand arrogant Darius, the younger Darcy son, after they start off with a bad impression of each other on their first meeting. In general the rest of the plot goes as you'd expect, but I really liked how the author didn't try to completely fit her story to P&P but instead used it as a general structure for telling a story about family, class, and cultural identity and what it's like for teenagers to navigate these things. In addition to fans of Jane Austen, I'd recommend this to fans of the smart, real-girl protagonists written by authors like Angie Thomas.

3.5/5 stars, for YA and Austen lovers alike

 

By the Book

I'm a sucker for a book with a cover/title like this and bought it on a whim from a remainders section for super cheap a while back without even really knowing what it was about. Then this year I somehow caught wind that it's actually a retelling of Persuasion, and it then jumped to the top of my pile - my favorite Austen book (I mean, the main character is named Anne!) in a modern-day setting? Yes, please! In this retelling, our protagonist is an adjunct English professor, working doggedly toward a tenure-track position, at a idyllic sounding liberal arts college in California; her old flame, Adam Martinez, who she declined to marry in grad school on the (not so good?) advice of her PhD advisor, unexpectedly shows up on the scene as the new president of the college - and therefore her new boss. It might not be the greatest literature ever, but goodness was it an enjoyable and satisfying reading experience - with the campus setting, very fun for English major types, or for those involved in academia/publishing, since the characters are often navigating syllabi, department meetings, academic conferences, and the like, encapsulating the feel but also poking a bit of fun. It reads like a contemporary romance, bordering on rom-com, that is pretty low on the steam factor, so if you like that kind of thing this is a great pick, even if you're not in it for the Persuasion connection.

4/5 stars, random bookstore grab that was worth it!

 

Are you into Jane-adjacent stuff too? I saw a fun roundup of Austen-inspired books for Janeites of all ages on Modern Mrs. Darcy recently, and I co-sign on a bunch of them, such as Longbourn (historical fiction extending the P&P universe), Eligible (P&P retelling), Dear Mr. Knightley (Emma retelling), and The Jane Austen Project (time travel!).


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10 November 2020

wearing lately: last hurrahs

Thanks to some record-breaking amazing Michigan weather, it was a weekend of (what I assume will be) last hurrahs for 2020: bare ankles, wearing these favorite summer shoes + anything besides a sweater, raking the rest of our leaves, eating lunch outside with my book. 

 

Hopefully it's not the last hurrah for using my sunglasses, but for the rest, we'll be returning to normal November programming very soon. I'll miss this recent warm weather treat, but the plus side of moving on with November? Election is over, and we're getting a new president! And a woman in the White House! 

It's still a pandemic, and I still have plenty of anxiety about what can happen between today and inauguration day, so it's not like it's a new world (yet) - but it's nice to go into the week with that one weight off, especially that now the news can be about what plans and smart people are going to be in place to take care of running the country in January. 

And now off to catch up on things after a very distracted last week... Cheers!

09 November 2020

making herstory

What a momentous weekend! Enough to prompt a rare Monday post from me, as I'm going into this week with more hope and less anxiety than I've felt in a while about the whole political situation (though it's not over till it's over when you're dealing with someone who seems to be delusional, so that anxiety is certainly not gone) - and also tons of excitement about this:


YES!

With Biden + Harris' election there are so many things that I am so happy we can move on from/fix from the last 4 years, but for starters can I say how comforting it is to (a) see the responses of leaders from around the world and know that we're going to be fixing our global relationships, led by a guy who knows what he's doing and has tons of experience/connections already on these levels, and (b) hear about planning for a cohesive pandemic response being already in the works, led by people who care about the health of everyone (maybe they can just offer this new plan to the current administration for free so we can get going?).

The countdown to election day (week) is finally over, and now let the next countdown begin: 71 days to go!

06 November 2020

five things Friday: in my cart edition

In addition to having to limit what came into my ears this week, I've also been pretty strict about my visual news intake too. The goal this week was to be informed, but also sane, so no mindless frequent opening of the news app on my phone. I guess I replaced it with mindless retail cruising (it was rather a stressful week after all), because here's somethings that ended up in my virtual cart:

1 | 2 | 3 | 4 | 5

My black dog walking but also cute enough for regular wearing sneakers are about to bite the dust, so I'm loving this replacement. Also needing to replace a puffer coat that just isn't doing it for cold dog walking - this one is a cute color plus has a hood, both a must. The Sephora sale is on through the weekend, a great time to restock on some essentials, and also this Olaplex set that I have been using lately and loving. The No. 3 treatment leaves my hair so nice and soft and shiny! And the shampoo/conditioner are great too. And then a bit of holiday scrolling... I'm letting myself decorate a bit early this year (seriously, why not?), and it might involve a new garland. Also very excited for my copy of What Kind of Woman to arrive next week, and without having even gotten it yet, I've already added a couple of additional copies to my cart to gift to my book club lady friends for Christmas.

Shopping talk feels a little fluffy - though I don't know about you, but I'm feeling completely spent by this point in election week and just need a minute for it. At this point I'm cautiously optimistic, so most of the anxiety has run its course, but I'm also really feeling more and more sad about the state of things, that it would be this hard to elect a replacement for someone I can't see as anything but corrupt, unethical, and selfish. Also smarmy. Feels like we have a lot more work to do toward fixing things.

How are you doing out there?

05 November 2020

listening lately

If "you are what you listen to", then if I stick to my usual NPR and current events podcasts, then what I am is an anxious mess, because if it's not about the election, it's about the pandemic, and gah. So this week I have been deliberate about not listening to anything newsy (and also looking at news sites only at appointed times...of which there were zero on election day itself), and I think it has been the right thing for mental health.

Here is a very random assortment that has given my ears a little respite from it all in the last couple of days:

For some smiles

  • "Samin Nosrat And Hrishikesh Hirway Are Just Here For The Cookies" on The Sporkful: in which the Salt Fat Acid Heat author and Song Exploder podcast host talk about their love of cookies, and what are the best kind of cookies. It is delightful.
  • "Tell Him I'm a Good Kisser" by Lake Street Dive: I have been blasting music when waiting my turn in the afternoon school pickup line, and this particular song just makes me smile and want to groove.

For an escape

  • "Doree's Hotel" on Forever35: it probably will seem super weird to someone who isn't a regular listener of this podcast, but lately the co-hosts have been taking imaginary vacations on the show, verbally walking through each aspect, like what the hotel bed is like and what they would order at the restaurant, etc. and it is SO soothing. So they did an entire episode for election week with 2 imaginary getaways - perfect escape that is lighthearted and silly but at the same time also might have made me audibly moan with pleasure.

For some big emotions but in a good way

  • Celine Dion: Enough said.
  • Dear Evan Hansen soundtrack: this isn't a Broadway show that I've seen, but I'm loving the music, and I definitely get the sense that it would be a show with big feels - I can almost get a cathartic kind of cry going just by singing along to a few of the tracks.

For some calm

  • "The Third Gleam" by The Avett Brothers: this new album is quite mellow, and I have really been enjoying it in the evenings, especially now that it's dark so early.
  • Sleep meditations by Kristin McGee: I haven't utilized the meditation section of the Peloton app much yet, but this week I appreciated the help in calming down and falling asleep. I love Kristin's yoga on the Peloton app too. 


Next I'm kind of tempted to go back to some old David Sedaris audiobooks for some laughs. Any other suggestions for me?

04 November 2020

currently


appreciating: the fall colors. Cheesy as it is, I have really been trying to pause and soak it in each time I see a particularly gorgeous tree - it has made me realize how tense I am all the time right now, and it's such a good way to take a grounding deep breath. I'm writing this before Election Day (one of the huge sources of stress of course), and so I'm also appreciating this chance to focus on some current happenings in life that also are calming or fun - and to gather with some online friends too. 

ordering: books on top of books! I have a great list of pre-orders that will make their way to me at the appointed times and are a great source of positive anticipation, and I let myself order a BOTM box again this month, after reading down my other stacks a bit - so I'm looking forward to getting into Memorial and Queenie soon. Also, H reads like crazy, and books feels like something it's very fine to spoil your kid with... so I have been ordering the Wingfeather Saga series and Clubhouse Mysteries books too, and I'm starting in on ordering books to gift to friends and family at Christmas as well, because obviously books make the best gifts.

perfecting: my at-home Americano-making technique. Current favorite results come from making 2oz espresso with Starbucks blonde roast from the espresso side of our coffee machine, poured into 1-1/4 cups of hot water.

planning: for a holiday season that's going to look very different, rather than planning a Thanksgiving tablescape like I usually would be. News that the biggest Covid spread in our community (which is at its highest rates ever and getting scary) is being fueled by small/family gatherings re-iterates the fact that we literally need to be home for the holidays. Thanksgiving will perhaps be replaced by a nice, masked family hike; for Christmas, I'm thinking of some simple things we can do at home that will be special touches, like putting up the tree earlier than usual (twinkle lights are a balm for the soul!), and getting all three of us a fun advent calendar: Lego Harry Potter for Hendrik, Haribo candy for Peter, and Olive & June nail polishes/tools for me. Giving up some of the big family gatherings will be hard, but it's looking necessary, particularly as we bring in a risk factor with a school kid and his potential exposures.

wearing: matching sweater + mask combos. Cute, right?


Now I'd love to hear what you're currently up to - link up your post below, and mark your calendar for the December edition, always my favorite of the year, and I think it will be nice to hang on to that tradition in the 2020 madness, even if holidays are different this year. So on Wednesday the 2nd I'll be taking currently baking, decorating, gifting, hoping, and sending.

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03 November 2020

wearing lately: sale sweaters

I'm not typically one to buy clearance clothing items at the end of a season in order to save them for next year - being sucked in by a good deal turns out to be a bad deal if by next year you're not really into it, or it doesn't fit, or you don't need it. But the exception is sweaters. By the end of what is usually a loooong cold season in Michigan, my sweaters typically look a bit worse for wear, and the prospect of starting that season over again with something fresh is very enticing.


And my current self is indeed thanking my April self for ordering a couple of selections on super sale. Definitely am craving something a bit shiny and new right now (that's not just the impending winter talking - I'm in a little bit of self-distraction mode with all of the craziness going on... Election Day, anyone?), and I have to look no further than my own closet shelves for it. It almost feels like I'm getting them for free by this point. Wheeee!

So I can't point you in the direction of this exact sweater any more, but here are some with similar mock neck vibes that I am loving for a casual-cool look with some chelsea sneakers. Simple and easy and chic. 


In conclusion, GO VOTE! And if you already have, curl up and enjoy your sweaters (may I suggest a good uplifting read to pair with them, such as The Vanderbeekers of 141st Street or Love Lettering or The Jane Austen Society), because it feels like it could be a long ride...