31 October 2018

reading lately: series-ly good

A love of reading book series goes way back in my reading life (remember the Boxcar Children??). As someone who's always been a fast reader and a voracious reader, I love how a series means I automatically have my next book lined up, and how it lets me keep living in the world of the characters I've grown attached to. Lately I've been working through some pretty great grown-up series - here are 5 to check out if you love a series as much as I do. (Okay, spoiler alert: in one of these I actually didn't really like any of the follow-up books, but it's still an excellent first book, so it counts as series-ly good for our purposes today...)


Us Against You
Okay, so this isn't a series exactly (but maybe there will be a third, to turn it into one, who knows?) but rather a follow up to Beartown - but I had to mention it here because this pair makes for such great reading. Definitely need to start with Beartown (one of my favorite reads of 2017, by the way - review here), and then this story picks up right in the aftermath, following how this small town in the woods of Sweden grapples with the divisive incidents, both collectively and individually, following many of the same characters (but introducing a couple of newcomers). Hockey again is at the forefront, but again it's not just as a sport, but as an identity for a small, struggling town, how it's the thing that brings people together, or is the ticket "out" for some, and so on. I don't want to give away anything from either plot, so I won't say more, except to say that I loved these books - both have the same heavily foreshadowed storytelling style, which for me served to make them very compulsively readable. 4/5 stars


Rich People Problems
I loved reading Crazy Rich Asians - it's just such a fun romp, with these outlandish characters and their ostentatious wealth, but still a pretty good romantic comedy storyline overall - in fact, a plot that I was discussing with my mom as actually quite reminiscent of Jane Austen, the way that it's this small society set, and their concerns about money and marriage and status. So I of course wanted to read more once I finished it. But then I thought the second book (China Rich Girlfriend) was just okay, so I didn't have a lot of momentum going for book #3 - until I saw the movie version (SO good!) and got all gung-ho about it again. Unfortunately I was a bit let down again. I just don't find very many of the outrageous side characters as compelling as the main ones (Nick, Rachel, cousin Astrid), and it seemed like there were just so many side characters to keep track of in this one, that I just found the book a bit over the top yet also kind of boring at the same time. I think once the romantic tension of Nick and Rachel's romantic relationship is resolved, it feels like just a lot of wacky stuff happening, not as much of a cohesive story. It's like a TV series that has gone on too many seasons and loses its luster. So. All that to say: definitely recommend Crazy Rich Asians in both book and movie format, but this might not be a series to continue unless you're super into it, in my opinion. 2.5/5 stars


Lethal White
Ahh, J.K. Rowling (writing here under a pseudonym, of course) - she definitely has the ability to write a series where I finish a book and go, "ahhhhhhh how long do I have to wait for the next one?!" That was definitely the feeling I had when I finished book 3 in the Cormoran Strike detective series, and so I got my hands on this book 4 as soon as I could when it was released this fall. I also tore through it - I haven't shirked responsibilities to read this much for a while - and now am antsy for the next, of course. I thought the plot of this one was quite complex, with all of the current, historical, political, etc. elements that went into the detective case at the center of the story, which begins when a mentally ill boy bursts into their office, raving about an apparent murder he witnessed as a child. There's a lot to pull together in this plot, and I think it's done quite deftly, with addictive pacing. But what got me compulsively turning pages even more was the character development and personal lives of private detective Cormoran Strike and his assistant Robin Ellacott, which picks right up where book 3 left off - they're both dealing with relationship issues, PTSD issues, and a whole lot of juicy tension between the two of them. This is a series where you probably should start at the beginning, to get the back stories of the characters and their development, since they're pretty well into the category of "character-driven mysteries" that I love, but fair warning that I found book 1 a little slow. It was good enough that I kept going though, and then I got really into the series with book 3 (sensitivity warning: creepy serial killer aspect that I had to skim portions of), and now book 4 (intense pace, but not too gory/yucky). 4/5 stars


Persons Unknown
As clearly established, I love a good detective series, and part of what makes it good in my mind is when the detective's personal life or past plays into the story just as much as the mystery they are solving (and also it helps if the detective British/Irish - I'm a sucker for these books!). In the case of this series about Detective Manon Bradshaw, I find them especially interesting because they've got a late 30s female protagonist who is struggling with her feelings about how while she is working herself ragged for her job, her biological clock is ticking... She just feels like a real, solid person, with real-life concerns. In this book, the follow up to Missing, Presumed (which I also enjoyed), Manon is now a single mom with an infant and an adopted pre-teen, and she's juggling caring for her kids, pursuing a potential romantic relationship, and, oh yeah, being a detective with long hours and lots of office politics (she's stuck on the cold case desk these days). When a murder happens near her home, she's already trying to scope things out, but then when her adopted son gets accused of the crime, things get really personal, and her loyalty to her family is pitted against her relationship with colleagues. Love the characters and the plot, but also how it delves into issues of motherhood, family, race, and more. I would say read Missing, Presumed first so you get the whole backstory and get to know Manon, and then this one is even better, so you have that to look forward to! 4/5 stars


The Thousandth Floor
This YA series takes place in an imagined New York City of 2118, where the residents of a 1,000-floor, mile-high skyscraper go about their lives with robots, genetic engineering, foods, etc. of the future - but the same social stratas, teenage relationship/parent drama, jealousies, deep dark secrets, and so on still exist. I admit that I haven't actually watched the series Gossip Girl (yet - it's on Netflix though - should I??), but from what I imagine of it, I think this series is kind of a futuristic Gossip Girl type thing with these Manhattan high school girls. You get a mix of YA angsty romance, page turner, and sci-fi (on the accessible level of something like Ready Player One or Artemis, rather than something totally sci-fi), and it all makes for quite a fun read, perfect for sitting by the pool with on our Palm Springs vacation. Loved the mix of characters and the pacing; I just didn't love the ending (in a ahhhh why does it have to turn out like this?? way, rather than a this is bad writing kind of way), and that leaves me with a little dread of what the characters are going to have to overcome in terms of relationships in the next book, so I haven't gone there yet... but I do plan to read books 2 and 3 eventually! 3.5/5 stars


Looking for other series to get into? In the detective category, my all-time favorite is Kate Atkinson's Jackson Brodie series. I also enjoy Louise Penny's Armand Gamache mysteries (though I will say the earliest books in it are a little slow). One in the category of "fun romp" is the Kopp Sisters series. And companion set in YA land that I super love is Julie Murphy's Dumplin' and Puddin'. Oh, and I can't leave out Harry Potter - counting down to when I can read these books with Hendrik and relive that magic of my youth.

What are your favorite series that I should start in on?


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30 October 2018

wearing lately: fall tan

We've reached the point in the season where I've lost the summer tan (sad!) - but at least there's some fall tan to fall back on... a rich cognac is my neutral of choice for this season, and I've been piling it on lately.



Big love for this faux wrap sweater - aside from the fact that the lower cut seriously shows off how pale I've gotten already, I love the change-up in cut from my usual crewneck, how I can add a lace-trimmed camisole for a little peek of fancy, and how dang cozy and warm it is without being bulky. Add in some cognac flats and purse, and the distressed jeans for the fancy/casual vibe I love, and I'm good to go for fall (until impending snow forces me to switch out for cognac ankle boots).

Now, though, I'm contemplating trying to finally find a good (i.e. not stinky and not streaky) sunless tanner to get me through until a Florida trip in January - because as pale as I already look, the situation is going to get even more blinding white by then! Any recommendations?


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26 October 2018

five things Friday: cute & quick costumes edition

Yesterday I shared the super easy no-sew ghost costume that Hendrik will be sporting for Halloween this year. As you can see, we're more into the cute versions of things than the scary ones... And there are soooo many other cute semi-DIYs on the internet that would be totally doable this weekend if you still need a costume. With just some cardboard or felt additions to things you already have, you can outfit the whole family, and quite adorably at that.

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Dragons Love Tacos is a favorite book around here, and felt spikes on a hoodie is pretty darn easy. The taco would be a bit more complicated, but if you have as many Amazon Prime boxes laying around as I do, you'll have plenty of supplies to start with...

Also favorites around here? Ice cream (how cute are the felt sprinkles on that baby!) and stripes, so the mini ice cream sundae and bandit get-ups would be winner costumes as well. But the best is that giant cardboard beanie baby tag... If you have a dog this fuzzy, PLEASE attach one to its collar for Halloween for me!


25 October 2018

pin to present: ghost costume

Hendrik has been saying for months already that he wants to be a ghost for Halloween. He saw in a book somewhere the classic bedsheet ghost costume and was fully planning on that, until I disabused him of the notion - as a mom, it's pretty much my job to foresee disasters, and this totally would be, with the eyeball holes slipping out of alignment, or him tripping over the end of the sheet...



Though it seems to me a classic Halloween costume, there really aren't any to be had at Target or Amazon - so, naturally, I took to Pinterest to come up with an easy DIY solution. And what I came up with was not only easy, but it is also warm, a necessary component for Halloween in Michigan! The poncho style topper is made out of fleece, and is big enough to be layered over as many sweatshirts/coats as necessary, depending on how the weather turns out. Plus there's a hat!

This really was super easy following this no-sew tutorial - took me probably 1/2 hour, especially because I skipped the step of knotting the fringe. And since I hit a good sale day at Joann Fabrics (plus coupon), the whole thing cost about $10. All around better than an Amazon costume, and Hendrik loves it. I even have enough fleece left over that I might subject Ginger to the same treatment...

What's everyone being for Halloween at your house this year?

24 October 2018

5th birthday arty party

We love a good party theme around here - so far Hendrik's birthday shindigs have mostly been coordinated around foods he likes (avocados! ice cream! everything!), but this year we went for one of his favorite activities: arts & crafts. For our first attempt at having a party with little school friends over, I thought an arty party would be a fun way to keep some preschoolers occupied for a bit... realizing later that it could have been semi-disastrous to give 5 boys a bunch of paint, and also blue frosting, but they all took their art very seriously, and had a great time!



It turns out there are tons of art party ideas on Pinterest, and even a whole line of art party items you can buy on Amazon, so I took advantage of both to plan a fairly simple yet cute (because I can't help myself) event. At this age Hendrik loves to help with this stuff, and as long as he thinks it's fun, I'm rolling with it! Here's what we came up with:

Invitations: inspired by this napkin design, I came up with a quick postcard design in Photoshop and then had them inexpensively printed by Zazzle. But I saw similar cute printables like this on Etsy as well, like this, this, or this.

Decor: going with the paint theme, Hendrik and I stopped by Lowe's and picked up some paint sample cards, which are in this great pointed banner shape already, and then just punched holes and strung them on bakers twine. Did the same with a pack of pom-poms from the craft store. Other than that, just did this fun coloring tablecloth and cute paint splatter napkins from Amazon, and the painter tee for Hendrik that I just couldn't resist (this or this would also have been perfect).

Craft projects: first things first, I covered the table with a big disposable tablecloth, and put out aprons to keep the kids from getting too messy (which I decorated with temporary tattoos - so fun!). Then I set out jars with all of our favorite craft supplies: acrylic paints, paint brushes, washi tape, googly eyes, felt letters, assorted pom poms, and glue. To decorate, we had some party hats along with some cute little white pumpkins I got at the farmer's market for 50 cents each. And then all of these Montessori classmates know the necklace "work" where they string on noodles and such - so I thought they would love a Froot Loops + peach rings edible necklace craft. I just put out some supplies in little bowls and some yarn from my craft stash, and that occupied them all for a bit longer as well!

Cupcakes: I got this idea from Pinterest, to have the kids decorate their own cupcakes with a variety of sprinkles placed in artists' paint palettes. They turned out so cute, and I was impressed how long the kids spent on carefully placing sprinkles onto their cupcakes! Just went with a boxed funfetti mix and jar of blue frosting to keep it simple, but I put the frosting into a piping bag to make it look fancier on the cupcakes.

Party favors: this is the part I'm most proud of... I came up with the idea of a "creativity kit" for each of the kids to take home - and aside from the temporary tattoos I ordered on Amazon, it was totally free! I happened to have some clear cone shaped treat bags, so I just went into my craft stash and put in some fun stuff, like googly eyes, pom poms, stickers, pipe cleaners, paper clips, and even some leftover mini play dohs from Hendrik's last Valentine's handout. Along with a felt letter of each kid's first initial and a cute washi tape closure, these were a hit! If you don't have a craft stash of my size, you could replicate easily with a kit like this from Amazon.


So that was Hendrik's 5th birthday arty party - followed the next day by a family dinner with 16 extended family members and his choice of spaghetti and meatballs. And we've been building his new Lego sets ever since... I think I sense a 6th birthday party theme coming on!

23 October 2018

blogger style: one item, two ways

Now here's an item that I could probably twin with many of you on: the quilted puffer vest. This J.Crew navy version is a classic, and an apple orchard trip outing in the fall is the classic blogger time to wear it, so it's of course the perfect piece to showcase with Dana for the next installment of our one item, two ways blogger style series.




I went super comfy cozy with a cowlneck sweater, jeans, and my "mom" slip-ons. These are total mom shoes because (a) they're Dr. Scholl's brand (shhh, don't tell - they're cuter than you'd expect for the brand, and also a steal of a deal on Amazon!) and (b) I'm pretty sure every mom in Hendrik's preschool class has slip-on shoes in this style. At least I went with a faux snakeskin merlot color to differentiate myself!

Funny enough, I hear that Dana also took her vest photos at an apple orchard - but I don't know how she styled the rest of her outfit yet! So let's all go take a visit and get some more inspiration for remixing our ubiquitous puffer vests.... (And if you don't happen to have one of these babies yet, they go on sale often - or else Old Navy has an even cheaper version, or a full jacket that looks really similar, for those of us who live in climates where vest weather is short-lived.)


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19 October 2018

five things Friday: olive you edition

My favorite colors to wear this fall are most definitely merlot (or burgundy, or wine, or whatever bottle of red name you want to give it) and olive. They're such great colors for the season, and I have tons of options in my closet (such as seen here and here and here). Only issue? If I want to wear them on the same day, suddenly I've jumped way past fall and into Christmas season...

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I think I can probably manage an every-other-day kind of compromise though, since the distribution is spread pretty evenly between wine and olive (doesn't all of this talk make you want to take off for an early weekend happy hour?!).

Evenly at this point, anyway, unless I get tempted in to one of these great green finds. Especially thinking of how much use I could get out of this sweater and those cute wet-weather boots!

18 October 2018

pin to present: printable pencil toppers

Among the (many!) exciting things about turning 5 this week for Hendrik was the chance to bring a birthday treat to share with his classmates. But in a time where it feels like every holiday has turned into Halloween, with how much candy gets handed out, I thought maybe we'd look for some ways to go the non-edible route. And then I remembered a variety of easy pencil toppers I've spotted on Pinterest before, so we whipped up our own...


The inspiration shown here is a very cute free printable, but a personalized version is super easy if you just take a cute Instagram photo, overlay some text, and then print out sheets of them. After I cut out the individual squares, I just used an x-acto knife to cut two small slits for the pencil to slide through, and, voila! A perfect gift that's not sugary and that's not just another random trinket. I mean what kid who's learning to write their letters can't use another pencil - especially a fun stripey variety that I got inexpensive packages of on Amazon (of course).

Mini play dohs make a great non-food/actually useful little giftie too, or I bet swirly straws would be a big hit with the preschool/kindergarten crowd as well - might hang on to this idea for next year!

17 October 2018

watching lately: book vs. movie

I'm pretty squarely in the book is better camp (and also the anti movie tie-in book covers camp - amiright?), but sometimes there are screen adaptations that look so well done that I will be willing to give up time working on my never-ending, always-growing to read list, and give something a watch instead. Here are 5 recent-ish instances that might be worth your while too, if you haven't seen them yet:


Crazy Rich Asians: oh my goodness this movie was so much fun. Great for a girls' night out. The opulence of the book, with the crazy rich characters' clothes, homes, etc., lends itself very well to the visual, and the storyline is a fun twist on a romantic comedy, so I figured this would be a good one, and it did not disappoint. As always, not all storylines/characters could be fully developed, given how movies have to condense things down for time, but some of the minor characters were played SO well - I laughed out loud many more times then when reading the book. I maybe liked the central love story better in the book, but that also was maybe because I already knew how things were going to shake out, so there was less of the romantic tension for the movie. That said, I totally cried in the end. 5/5 stars

The Guernsey Literary & Potato Peel Pie Society: this Netflix adaptation caught my eye immediately because it's basically a Downton Abbey cast reunion, and I'm down for that! The filming of this channel island setting is gorgeous, and it's been soooo long since I read the book that I wasn't bothered by (or didn't really notice, to be honest) any points where it veered from the original. It's of course going to be different from the original in that the book is written as letters/correspondence, so you have to tell the story a bit differently to capture it on screen. Again, I think the romantic tension lost a little of its original magic, either because I knew the ending, or because movie time has to condense the relationship down. So the book is probably better, but this is definitely enjoyable. 4/5 stars

To All the Boys I've Loved Before: this is adorable. All of the cute, escapist things I like about YA fiction come to life on screen. The actors selected for this Netflix original brought to life these characters great for me. Again, I had enough distance from reading the book to not be too bothered by discrepancies, and yet again some of the romance (not the main relationship at least) was less compelling given the condensed form, but this really was delightful Netflix watching for an evening home alone. And it reminds me that I want to read the other 2 books in this series4.5/5 stars

Poldark: I have not read any of these books, but Doree has talked about them a lot on my fave podcast, so knowing how much she enjoyed the series, I thought I'd give the PBS Masterpiece adaptation a chance. Usually I'm a big fan of these adaptations, partly because with a miniseries you get plenty of time to develop character and plot, so you can be fairly true to the story. I'm not sure this historical fiction would be right up my alley for reading, but for watching, I'm loving what is basically a 1770s soap opera - ha! Poldark comes home to England after the Revolutionary War and finds that his father has died, his estate is in shambles, and his lady is engaged to someone else. Sometimes I crave a good series like this for curling up with for long stretches, so I'm pleased to find seasons 1-3 on Amazon Prime as the weather cools. 3.5/5 stars (so far - but I'm only in season 1!)

A Wrinkle in Time: this one I actually have not yet watched, but I noticed that it has now arrived in Netflix - so I want to know, is it worth a watch? I read the book earlier this year for the first time and was really quite captivated by it, even though it's a little out of my usual genre. The cast of course looks amazing for this film version, but I don't want to be disappointed! Maybe I need to give it a little more time, so that I have more distance from the actual book...


If you're just as into the movies as you are the books, check out The Book Is Better Book Club, a blog co-run by an acquaintance of mine from Cincinnati. I love their head-to-head reviews of books and their screen adaptations, and it's giving me some inspiration for things I might also be interested in watching... but mostly I'm just waiting excitedly for the Netflix version of Dumplin' that Dana just told me about.

Any others you can recommend to add to my list in the meantime?

16 October 2018

wearing lately: fall family getaway mini capsule

Fresh off all of Hendrik's birthday fun over the past 3 days, we're gearing up for our next most highly anticipated plans of the fall: a family weekend getaway to visit my sister and her husband in Indianapolis. And that means it's time for one of my favorite hobbies: mix & match (mini) suitcase planning!


A fall weekend getaway means lots of layers for chilly in the morning/warmer in the afternoon type of weather, comfy options for the road trip and for biking around the city, and some cute pieces for museum and restaurant going. And of course cute and comfy shoes for all the walking that is inevitable in sightseeing - I got these slip-on sneakers for under $40 on Amazon and they are super cushy/comfy, as are the more splurgy Rothys loafers, which I think are pretty stylin' as well.

All of these pieces layer quite well - this type of jacket pairs well with everything from blouses to sweatshirts, plus a sweatshirt is cute with a chambray underneath - and also, one of my favorite outfits of all time is ponte leggings + chambray + utility jacket. And then a "cape scarf" like this is super useful for layering - it can be worn poncho style over any of the items, or worn knotted around the neck as another way to style. Totally changes up an outfit that way, which means this can remix into wayyyyy more outfits than I need for a long weekend - but hey, when you're driving, you've got plenty of space in the trunk for possibly slightly overpacking.


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15 October 2018

mini me Monday: Hendrik-isms, v. 4

How could this have been 5 years ago already?! My sweet, silly, smart little boy is suddenly seeming not little at all. He's grown out of all of his pants again and is seeming super long to us (for a short person like me, his measuring in above 50th percentile for height seems like a feat!), but more than that, he's doing mental math and writing and (starting) reading like a champ. So fun - yet so bittersweet, of course - to see his personality and smarts shine through, in his creations and in completing his "responsibilities" at school.


On his big day, I thought it would be fun to share some of his funny comments from recent months. I've been writing down these Hendrik-isms since the last time I posted them, so some of these are a little old now, but all still very Hendrik...

On the facts of life: womans get people born, not mans.  

Speaking of babies, he's got aspirations: I want to have 50 more cousins! (Remember, Aunt Hanneke is about to have one baby?) Then Aunt Clayre will need to have 49!

More on family relations: you know, if things were different, Daddy could have married Aunt Clayre, and then YOU would be my aunt. (Uhhhhhh?)

Agreeing that we live in a pretty prime location near our city's downtown: yeah, but it's not the awesome-ist spot in the WORLD. (Oh really, where is?) Probably the grandest palace.

Regarding his aspirations for having pets: if we didn't have Daddy, we could have a dog AND a cat!


His own recipe for "strong pills" after seeing daddy make his after-workout "strong" smoothie: milk, water, 10 cups smashed energy bars, vitamin A, vitamin b9.

Regarding some creature he learned about in Australia week at school: it's no bigger than a mouse!

Regarding the reason for having 4 different painting implements: because we wouldn't want to spoil the colors.

Upon being told he could get another "pack" in the Thomas & Friends iPad app if he used his own money on it (and retrieving said money from his piggy bank): okay, so do we just put the money inside the phone now, or next to it?

Expressing his frustration with being told what to do all the time: you're just driving me around like crazy!


When I walked into the room wearing my cool-girl (I *thought* so, anyway) jumpsuit, in a bright voice: Oh! You're wearing scrubs like daddy! Email scrubs! (Appropriately suited to my job, rather than daddy's operating room one, I guess...)

Playing "would you rather..." with my parents: would you rather snuggle in a blanket all the time, or be blind?

His take on evolution: dinosaurs probably lived on about the second day that the Earth was a thing.

And still we have to keep a little glossary of funny phrasing/pronunciation. He still insists he's correct on a lot of these things (choosing not to believe me, the person WHO CAN ACTUALLY READ. Anyway...)
conna - gonna
moomies - mummies
octapliss - octapus
construction book - instruction book (where is that construction book, in fact?)
strawberry zucchini - strawberry kiwi


And now with that Monday amusement, I'm going to go cry over some baby photos for a while until my big kid comes home from school to open his present (Legos, of course!).

12 October 2018

five things Friday: he's 5! edition

It's a very special edition of the "5 things" because this weekend is all about celebrating 5 years of our favorite boy! He's been counting down for weeks to his "friends party" on Saturday, and his "family party" on Sunday, and we're all ready to go with cupcakes and festive banners and more. In celebration, 5 favorite photos from his 5 years...


Plus - 5 of Hendrik's favorite things:
  1. Clif Kids bars from his "lunch time bin" (where I put all of the snacky-type things and he gets to have one per day).
  2. All things Lego, especially following instructions to build 3-in-1 Lego sets and taking trips to our local library's amazing Lego Lab, which has thousands and thousands of pieces to play with.
  3. Lion King dance parties, with the BEST interpretive dance moves you can even imagine.
  4. Watching Octonauts while I make dinner.
  5. Doing pretty much any kind of craft project, especially with cousin Emily (who has got to be one of his 5 favorite people!).

And 5 of our favorite things about him:
  1. His up-for-anything nature. Suggestions of baking something? Grocery shopping? Walking downtown? Going golfing? Organizing the playroom? His response: "Yeah! I'll do that!"
  2. His unfailing curiosity and interest in learning new things. I mean, the kid can tell you about thyroid surgery and dwarf planets.
  3. His creativity with arts & crafts and with language.
  4. The way he says "moomies" instead of "mummies" (makes me smile every time).
  5. That one sweet little dimple and his sunny smile.

Happy Friday!

11 October 2018

pin to present: quinoa stuffed delicata squash

Even as we head into fall, we're still the lucky recipients of fresh produce from my in-laws' great garden... it's squash time! They introduced us to delicata squash a couple of years ago, along with the way to get a kid to eat it: cut it into sticks, roast it, and call it "squash fries". But since I had several of these on hand, I thought it might be nice to try out a little something different, so I turned (where else?) to Pinterest and found this quinoa and cranberry stuffed delicata squash recipe.


This recipe is pretty much "fall-stuffed fall", what with the squash boats and the savory + sweet (cranberry) mix inside. I made it even more fall-ish by substituting sauteed brussels sprouts from the farmers market for the mushrooms in the original recipe (as Hendrik says - frequently - "we're not allergic to mushrooms; we just don't really like them"). And it's delicious!

Quite easy to mix up any variety of quinoa you like, whilst the squash roasts in the oven. I did the onion, garlic, cumin, thyme, and cranberries from the original recipe and also sauteed shredded brussels sprouts and cashews in there, with some feta added at the end. When roasted, the skin on delicata squash gets nice and soft, so you can eat the whole kit and kaboodle. The quinoa stuffing makes for great lunch leftovers too, I can attest to personally.

If you're looking for a taste of fall, try this!

10 October 2018

reading lately: do judge a book by its cover

You know how they say that you "can't judge a book by its cover"? I assume that's always meant in the sense that you can't decide you're not going to like something before you've tried it - but that doesn't mean that you can't judge a book by its cover in the opposite way... By which I mean that thing that book lovers all do when perusing a store or the library - that "oooooh, pretty!" reaction to a cover that makes you feel the need to pick it up and make it your own. And sometimes that turns out to be a great way to judge a book, because in grabbing up these eye-catching covers, I have found some real winners:



The Female Persuasion
I'm not always one for character-driven novels, but this one propels you through the pages more than I feel like some do... Plus, check out that cover! Love how it makes a statement on my bookshelf. Basically this story is a look at feminism/female support/how we find our own place in society from the perspective of several people as they decide how they are personally going to shape their views and actions in this area - from the older feminist activist Faith Frank (a la Gloria Steinham), to Greer who becomes a disciple (and eventually employee) of Faith after some negative experiences with men in college, to Greer's boyfriend Cory who reassesses his own views/life path after seeing Greer's evolution and after a tragedy makes him rethink his role in his family. Engaging, well-developed characters, and a very timely book in the #metoo time. I thought this quote from Fresh Air summed it up well for me: "Wolitzer is one of those rare writers who creates droll and entertaining novels of ideas." I quibble with how the last section went, but overall an enjoyable read that also made me think (and want to discuss!) about lots of ideas, like female roles, ambition, life paths, and more - both in terms of these interesting characters and relating to my own life. 3.5/5 stars


Goodbye, Vitamin
The gist of this story is that 30-year-old Ruth, recovering from a bad breakup, quits her job and moves home to help her parents after learning her father has early onset dementia (as the jacket cover aptly describes it, her father “is losing his memory and is only erratically lucid. Ruth’s mother, meanwhile, is lucidly erratic”) - but more than that, the story is presented in this darkly comical way that finds the laughter and absurdity and empathy in these situations of life not turning out the way you expect it to. These characters are kind of wacky and hapless and endearing as they go about navigating the adult child/parent relationship dynamic, the feeling of loss of career/vocation, the process of finding one’s place in the world. To me this almost read like fictional David Sedaris (particularly his Diaries), given the short, daily entry format of the writing and the observational, wry sense of humor, told in spare terms with memorable turns of phrase. Also they both have that ability to make you both laugh at little absurdities about life and feel a punch to the gut about the deepest emotions - regarding sickness and loss, about evolving relationships with parents/siblings and understanding their faults - in the very same page. Also seems like something that could be a really great, quirky indie film. A super quick read, and super delightful too, in my opinion - picked this up from the excellent clearance section at Unabridged Books in Chicago because how could I not with that fun pop art cover and the $6 price tag? More than worth it! 4.5/5 stars


The Queen of Hearts
Now this is an eye-catching cover, isn't it? It looks like some cool typographic art that I would totally save on Pinterest, and it of course makes for a book you want to put your hands on and find out what's inside... And what's inside? Basically a juicy medical drama, complete with the co-worker romantic interests (maybe even some hooking up in a call room), and a pool-side emergency tracheotomy. I mean, seriously juicy (slightly eye-rolly) fun. The story goes back and forth in time between present day where best friends Zadie and Emma are both doctors in Charlotte, North Carolina, living chaotic but fulfilling lives as working mothers - but then, when hunky chief resident Nick Xenokostas from their med school days turns up as a new colleague at their hospital, the story alternates to that earlier time period, and slowly we unravel what happened between Zadie and Nick to blow up their passionate romantic relationship, and what secret Emma has been keeping from her best friend since that time. There's some interesting themes about friendship and forgiveness and medical decision making, but you can also just read it as a total guilty pleasure - if you enjoy soap opera-ish dramas like Gray's Anatomy, you'll probably eat this right up. I had trouble putting it down, it was such good entertainment. 3.5/5 stars


Far from the Tree
A story of three high schoolers - Grace, who is struggling emotionally and socially after giving a baby up for adoption; Maya, whose parents are on the brink of divorce; and Joaquin, who is contemplating whether he wants to be adopted by his foster family - who find out that they all have half-siblings that they never knew about - each other. As they meet and begin to form a relationship, they all work to come to terms with their current struggles and also their pasts (especially as Grace and Maya were adopted as babies, but Joaquin never was), eventually banding together to try to find their birth mother. I loved the relationship they form and their sibling dynamic that develops despite their not meeting each other until they’re teenagers, and I also liked their individual characters/story lines as well. Overall, a really enjoyable young adult read, where you get a little of the snappy dialogue and offbeat characters and high school relationship drama, but it is so much more than that as well, dealing with issues and emotions surrounding adoption, foster care, teen pregnancy the strength of family ties (both blood relations and the families we build), and more. Great for fans of YA, especially authors like John Green and Julie Buxbaum (e.g., Tell Me Three Things). I also saw it recommended for fans of the show This Is Us, with the adoption storyline. 4/5 stars


You, Me, Everything
Ah, this lovely and colorful painting of the French countryside - and of course, the setting at a French chateau-turned-summer-resort - made this one love at first sight for me. Unfortunately out of this bunch, it was the least love at actual read... Single mother Jess takes her 10-year-old son to France for the summer, to spend some time vacationing where her ex-boyfriend lives, so that the father and son can finally get to know each other. Meanwhile, her mom is sick with some mysterious condition at home, and when the story finally unravels what that illness is, we learn Jess' ulterior motive in getting her son to spend more time with his father - she thinks she's going to die from this too, but she's keeping it a secret from her ex, and especially from her son. It's a pretty light romantic comedy type read that has the family drama/ex-love interests built in - which sometimes is right up my alley, like with a Jojo Moyes book (One Plus One, for example), but this one just fell a little flat for me. I think it just wasn't very nuanced in terms of characters or their development, so I just didn't care that much about them. So while it did have echoes of Jojo Moyes, it just felt a bit predicable. 2.5/5 stars


Some other recent favorite covers whose insides are just as wonderful: Pachinko (hardcover), I'll Give You the Sun, The Mothers, Emergency Contact.

And a few on my list because I love how they look: The Ensemble, Stay with Me, and A Place for Us (love the gold!).

What are the prettiest books on your shelf?


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09 October 2018

wearing lately: fall jeans on repeat

As someone who works from home and has a kid, I live a pretty much entirely jeans-appropriate lifestyle - and now that we're in very solidly jeans-appropriate weather, I thought it would be fun to look back at some denim-based outfits from falls past, to get some inspiration for fall present...



This quilted addition to my fall jacket collection is so perfect with jeans. It definitely adds a little warmth beyond the usual field jacket, making it good for weather in the mid-50s - but you can get away with slightly cooler temps when you layer sweaters underneath! Pair with perfectly fallish cognac, and I love this outfit for all kinds of outdoor fall fun, like going apple picking or taking Hendrik to pick out a pumpkin.



Ah, I love weather where a chunky cardigan is appropriate outerwear, and bare ankles aren't too cold... Fall neutrals on top with my signature pop of poppy red on the bottom makes this a very "me" outfit, and perfect for looking easily pulled-together for an appointment or day of shopping.



Fall jackets, date night style! My leather moto jacket is actually surprisingly warm, so it makes for the perfect "cool" factor for evenings when we've got a babysitter lined up... I often pair it with a silky blouse underneath, but the graphic pop of stripes is always a great way to go too.



These days I gear a little more simple with the accessories than when I posted this outfit originally, but I still love the general idea of these cozy Saturday vibes with a graphic tee, blanket cardigan, and lots of gray. I love the gray + denim combo this time of year.



And yet another fall jacket in my collection! A black anorak with a basic striped tee and some cute sneakers is perfect weekend wear as well, for walking to the farmers market or downtown with the fam. Or maybe even doing the soccer mom thing, except that my kid hated soccer so much that he flatly refuses to do it again. Ha!

So you can see, jeans all day every day for me, especially in fall. What are you repeating these days from your past fall wardrobes?

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