07 January 2022

five things Friday: January 2022 TBR edition

After so many good reads in 2021, I'm looking forward to seeing what makes my 2022 list... and I think I'll need to keep going with my monthly TBR intention lists this year to help keep track of it all, after getting a stack of books for Christmas, having a long library holds list, gaining a bit of a kindle deal + Netgalley pileup, and even having some fun pre-orders coming my way (can't wait for In a New York Minute and Bomb Shelter!). So here's what I'm thinking for January:


Got a good mix of things lined up for the month: for starters, some fun to combat the post-holiday winter blues, with two selections from this NPR favorite romances of 2021 list I saw: first a YA one, Fat Chance, Charlie Vega, and then also a rom-com from an author I've been meaning to try, The Dating Playbook.

Then there's also the fun of a sequel, The Secrets of Winterhouse, to a middle grade novel I read in December and loved (see below!) - the winter setting makes these great for this time of year.

No One Is Talking About This is literary (perhaps a bit speculative?) fiction that received a lot of accolades and arrived in my Christmas stocking courtesy of Peter. 

And to round out the month, finally getting around to some nonfiction: A Knock at Midnight. This sounds like a very powerful memoir, and I like how for January it also fits in with MLK Day, echoing the title of his sermon collection (which I'd also like to read, but this one is already on my kindle...).
 

A quick recap of December's TBR selections:

  • Winterhouse: delightful middle grade with a bookish, wordplay-loving main character, a magical (literally and figuratively, it turns out) winter hotel setting that you just wish was a place you could visit in real life, a touch of mystery, and a touch of magic too. It's a modern-day character who has lots of echoes of classic children's literature - she's an orphan living with her mean aunt and uncle who has an adventure that leads her to a found family and an understanding of who she is/powers she didn't realize she had. The action takes place over Christmas/New Year's, so it was a perfect winter break read that I think I'll put in Hendrik's book-a-day advent calendar next year. ★★★★
  • In a Holidaze was my other seasonal read for December. Though I have loved a lot of Christina Lauren books, I have to say that this wasn't my favorite - perhaps didn't really realize going in that it's a Christmas-time Groundhog Day trope situation, and that trope is not one I particularly enjoy for any story (except maybe the actual Groundhog Day). And, perhaps because of this Groundhog Day back-and-forth, I felt like I didn't really get to know and fall in love with the characters' relationship, not having a linear progression for it. So it was fun for a December read, but if you really want to love a Christina Lauren book, go for The Soulmate Equation, The Unhoneymooners, or The Honey Don't List.  ★★★
  • I Hope This Finds You Well: Kate Baer's first book of poetry, What Kind of Woman, was a big 2020 hit for how relatable for women, and how readable yet beautifully written they are; since that book came out she has been posting a lot of "blackout" poems on her Instagram, in which she takes messages she receives (usually from men, ranging from the more innocuously offensive to hate mail type messages) and blacks out some of the words to come up with a new, profound or uplifting message, one that empowers women. This new book is entirely made up of that type of poetry, some from messages she's received, and some from text she's seen around that tries to silence or shape women. Some of the poems also have a more positive/powerful beginning text too, such as Alexandria Ocasio Cortez's speech from the congressional floor. I liked how the book had the source material on the left-hand side, and then the cut-out poem on the right, so that you can compare. And whew, after almost every poem I had to stop to take in the punch of the message - yet I also cruised through the book because they were just so good. Definitely one to revisit. If you haven't explored her work, start on Instagram, and then get her books! ★★★★★
  • Harlem Shuffle took me until January to finish... while I liked it overall, honestly I found it a bit hard to follow at times with all of the different characters who pop in and out, and the various tangents, so it took a little while. I heard it billed as a heist adventure set in late 1950s/early 1960s Harlem, which was a little misleading - the novel is indeed bookended by two heists perpetrated by Ray Carney's cousin Freddie, a bit of an inept small-time criminal, but we're not exactly in the heist action, more just hearing about it afterward and seeing how Ray, despite his best intentions to be an upstanding furniture store owner, gets pulled into this criminal side when Freddie tries to bring him in as the fence to sell off the stolen goods. The main point of the story is more character-driven, about how Carney tries to reconcile (or not) his two selves, the upstanding business owner and the stolen goods middleman, and eventually face up to the dangers this could cause for his family and employees when the mob bosses come calling; it's also an exploration of Harlem at the time, from everyday life to big events like riots after a police shooting of a young black man (hmmm, echoes of today to explore?), and you really feel the thrumming of the city of the time period. If you like historical fiction with a bit of snappiness and a bit of the seedy side of things (nothing too intense or violent in terms of the heist/mob stuff), it's a good read. The theme of straight/crooked selves at war in a man who is trying not to be his father actually reminded me a lot of S.A. Cosby's Blacktop Wasteland - if you enjoyed that, this is a less overtly violent, historical version.  ★★★.75
  • NYT No-Recipe Recipes: it was my goal to spend a little time browsing this cookbook that I got on a Kindle deal - because it's all well and good if you buy cookbooks, but if you never get around to looking at them, you're not going to get around to any new recipes... And I did enjoy browsing and bookmarking a bunch of them, because the little intro text to each one is pithy and informative, and the recipes themselves sound so enticing. Admittedly, I find no-recipe cooking pretty stressful: I'm a type-A person - give me exact measurements and instructions to follow please... which is exactly the opposite of this book. Ha! Each recipe just lists what you need, with no measurements, and then gives some general instructions. The upside is that the recipes are all pretty straightforward (but still interesting!) and achievable for weeknight cooking, especially out of your pantry, but it does take a little feeling out. I'll definitely be revisiting the recipes I tried so far (pasta with sausage + sage, curry lamb with mango chutney) because now that I've done them once I know what little tweaks I'd make to my interpretation of the instructions to make them better - and they were already delish! In general, definitely recommend this cookbook if you want something simple but different.  ★★★★


So that was a pretty successful December reading list! Also read and enjoyed the romance-ish Just Last Night (reminded me a bit of books like The Flatshare, and maybe a little bit Evvie Drake Starts Over, with non-steamy but still swoony love stories with a bit of depth to the situations the characters are going through) the pandemic lockdown domestic thriller 56 Days (this is the type of covid-era media I can handle apparently - the related storylines in books like Apples Never Fall and in the Apple TV show The Morning Show, no thank you - too much like real life).


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05 January 2022

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anticipating: some fun milestones to come with Freddie. He'll be 5 months next week, and we're moving up to some big boy things like sitting in the Bumbo chair and trying some solid foods. So fun. (Photo is Hendrik in the same chair we still have - so fun to make these direct comparisons of what they look like!) Also *eagerly* anticipating our sleep training paying off someday...eesh.

organizing: the playroom, as is always the case right after Christmas. So much fun stuff added - but also so much stuff! I got some inexpensive but cute new fabric bins a couple of months ago, and we might need more to corral Lego manuals and games and such.

reading: my Christmas stack, starting with Boop & Eve's Road Trip by Mary Helen Sheriff, gifted by my mom - she found one I hadn't even heard of! Which is so fun - plus it sounds like it will be the perfect fun read to start off the dark post-holiday winter days of January, with descriptors like "intergenerational romp." Plus "secrets held for generations" is a catnip phrase for my reading tastes.

resolving: to figure out how to have less hurry in my life in 2022. My type-A personality tends that way, toward getting stuff done, which is great for productivity but not great for living in the moment and for enjoying my kiddos' stages for what they are. Hoping to improve on having some times to focus on just being instead of my brain wanting to multitask all the time, and also building in a bit more time between activities in my life rather than always trying to get the maximum amount of minutes out of each activity and then having to rush on to the next... 

scheduling: some more postpartum physical therapy appointments so that I can (hopefully) get back to regular running without any nagging aches or injury, unlike post-Hendrik pregnancy. I learned my lesson about ligaments and such still being lax from hormones, and things having shifted or lost strength during pregnancy, so I'm trying to do the work of getting it in order before I go full-on with the running, but it's hard - I miss the full runner's high, plus it's stuff that's so not fun to do (hip bridges and clam shells and kegels and whatnot) and feels unproductive because it's a slow progress. Should be worth it in the end! But maybe as an added motivator I will reward myself with a fun new color of my running shoes when I "graduate."


I hope you all had a great holiday season and are heading into 2022 with some good excitement and plans and intentions and such. Thanks for joining in today - and thanks for all of your nice comments on my last Currently post about being in a season that I'm just not able to visit/comment on very many posts. Soon enough, but meanwhile I still love that you are here!

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03 January 2022

mini me Monday: top buys of 2021

Happy New Year! One more 2021-related post though, since in going through my bests of the year (books, home buys, wardrobe/beauty buys) I had a bunch of kid stuff that we've absolutely loved around here and warranted a mention. Of course with a new baby there has been lots of new stuff (and new-to-us, since it's been so long since we had a tiny one!), but there are a few big kid things too that I'd definitely buy all over again...

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In baby: huge fan of Lovevery, which was not around when Hendrik was little. We have their (aesthetically pleasing, yay) playmat on loan from my sister and have used it a ton; it's even more fun for Freddie right now with the added sensory strands that he got for Christmas. And their subscription kits of Montessori-based toys/activities is so great too - love having things arrive to our door that are developmentally appropriate for each stage and come complete with cards suggesting activities to do with baby to enjoy time together and also to help him learn/develop. The products are lovely and well-made, and it's so fun to see how Freddie's interest in new items comes out as he grows. Admittedly I also think it's fun to have new toys too. Thanks, Gigi, for that gift!

Another new-to-us item on loan from my sister is the lotus tub for bathing in the sink. Freddie loves it so much - nice and soft and holds warmth better than a plastic tub. We're a little sad he's about to outgrow it! Would highly recommend for new babies.

Spanning big and little is my new favorite place to buy kids' clothes, Primary. The basics are such a great price and have held up well for us, plus STRIPES. Also I can't get enough of buying Hendrik and Freddie coordinating things, and this is a great option for it too - they both love their cozy sweatshirts and their stripey pjs and assure me that they really enjoy matching each other. Hendrik requests it regularly, in fact.

Also spanning big and little: the Target x Lego Collection. Oh my goodness, so much fun and cute clothing/accessories. Of course Hendrik is the one who is into Legos, but their colorful selections are fun for baby/toddler too. I tried to limit myself, but since Hendrik needed a new beanie, I snagged this one for him. (And might have also gotten some coordinating big kid and toddler pjs for next winter too... okay, okay, and also this great sherpa fleece.)

In big kid: I got Hendrik a pair of the rubber Birkenstocks when I bought my own, since I thought it would be handy to have a sandal option that has a back strap and also is hose-off-able. He absolutely wore through this pair, he loved them so much - and though they actually cracked by the end of the summer, for how hard he was on them, I thought they were a great value. 

The muslin quilt is from a new-to-me brand, Little Unicorn, that has such cute patterns for baby gear like swaddle blankets and burp cloths that I was scoping for Freddie but then noticed this bigger size blanket that I thought would be perfect for Hendrik's needs - a summer-weight bed topper. It's maybe a tad small for a twin-sized bed, but it works, and it's so soft and cute and provides the perfect weight that he likes on top of him without being too warm for summer.

And the lunch box notes are a little random thing that I have been very pleased with this school year, since at some point last year I wrote out a joke on a sticky note and stuck it in his lunch box - and then of course he wanted one every day. 


So those are some favorite new finds for the minis in the last year, and I'm sure there will be more new ones for 2022 as Freddie gets into the older baby stage... such as the new bike trailer we got for Christmas, once he's big enough to ride! Any favorites in your life that my boys should know about?