23 August 2022

wearing lately: family roadtrip packing list

At the beginning of the month we took a little family road trip to Cincinnati to visit some of our old favorite places and some friends from when we lived there. Feeling out of practice with traveling in general made prepping to do a 5-hour drive and several out-and-about vacation days with a baby in tow even more daunting, but luckily some friends loaned us their house since they were gone - complete with baby gates and a crib - so I didn't have to worry about too much gear... And of course I made things easier on myself by coming up with a little mix & match wardrobe capsule!

 

I didn't end up with exactly this configuration in my suitcase, but close. Laying it out like this and quickly trying on the outfits in advance definitely helped me know what would work for our various activities and how much I'd need to bring - which then freed up time for figuring out kid suitcases, travel snacks, etc.

Thought it would be fun to share the lineup since it made for such a great collage, and a great mix of outfits - good for hot weather, kid-friendly outings like the zoo and children's museum, dinners out at restaurants and a friend's house, and even an outdoor concert for Peter and me (another bonus of visiting friends: they have trusted babysitters you can borrow!). Maybe foolhardy, but I even went to Graeter's for our must-have Cincinnati ice cream while wearing the white denim shorts and it all worked out great.

19 August 2022

5 things Friday: school stuff edition

Hendrik still has a week and a half left on summer break, but as the camps are all done and we (me!) start really craving that return to routine, we're doing a few last hurrahs (including a couple big-kid-only things: an outdoor Decemberists concert this week, and a day at an amusement park next week) and then setting our sights on 4th grade. A few things ordered/purchased in our preparations that are getting us both excited, in that way that only fresh school gear can do...

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We got an LL Bean catalog mid-summer that I tossed to a bored Hendrik, suggesting that he check out some backpack options as his has bit the dust (and gotten a bit small) after 3 years of use. Turns out he has some strong opinions on backpack style! He was quite adamant about this particular one even though I thought it seemed a bit big, but since he pretty much lets me dress him and pick out all of his stuff, I thought we'd get what he wanted, including with the cursive personalization. We landed on the matching lunchbox too, along with a new Bentgo box. He's been using this other one for years, but the compartment shape of the new style seems like it might be a better fit for his bigger kid lunches.

Also in the area of having his own opinions: on our recent trip to Cincinnati we went to our old "regular" mall just for kicks, and he hasn't been inside a clothing store in a million years and had fun looking around. So when he said he really loved this Crewcuts shirt, I made it his (helped that it was 40% off of course). New shoes are a definite back-to-school requirement as his old ones have a hole in the toe and are too small; Adidas sizing has worked out well for him, so that's my go-to brand at this point. New jeans will be required for mr. beanpole legs as well - if you struggle with that too, the Old Navy slim cut option has been our best bet there. 

And finally, not pictured but still important: got prepped for returning to the classroom with his Covid booster

15 August 2022

a Freddie-cakes first birthday party

I love a good party theme, and when it came to celebrating Freddie's 1st last week, I had a built-in one ready to go: one of his silly nicknames from early on has been Freddie-Cakes, so what better theme than... cake!


It was a casual family gathering, so I kept things pretty simple with Paperless Post invites, a crockpot bbq dinner, and a balloon garland + banner as the main decor, which we set up in the outdoor tent space at our church. The best part of course was the cake display - my dad, our resident family cake baker, made my theme dreams come true by baking 3 different ones for us: chocolate with oreo mousse filling, butter cake with raspberry mouse and nutella frosting, and carrot cake (which might sound less exciting compared to the others, but his carrot cake is good). I don't super go in for the Pinterest-y smash cake thing, but Freddie loves textures of things so I thought he'd probably get a kick out of going at one, so I used a healthy-ish banana bread mix in a mini pan, frosted it up (yes, he got plenty o' sugar there), and let him at it. And yes, he loved it.

What fun - even if kind of mindblowing - to celebrate our Freddie's first! Didn't manage to get everything into a photo, but here's all of the supplies I used - plus cakes courtesy of my dad of course. Oh, and the tablecloth I actually dug up from Hendrik's first birthday party, where - surprise, surprise - the theme was pie.

invitations: Paperless Post
here for the cake tee: Stormy Ray on Etsy
banner: DIYed with Target garland + Squeakily Stickers decals
high-chair balloon garland: Glamfetti Co on Etsy
tassel banner: Glamfetti Co on Etsy
cake stands: Target (similar)
cake plates: Meri Meri
1 candle: Meri Meri
confetti napkins: Target

11 August 2022

1 year of Freddie!

First birthdays bring out all of the clichés: time flies, certainly, and the days are long, but the years are short, for sure. Case-in-point is this lineup of all of Freddie's monthly photos. Gosh, it feels like a long time ago since I took that "one" photo - and what a different little guy he is from that time, in personality, playfulness, chunkiness, and dare I say even cuteness! - yet it's also hard to fathom how it's been a whole year since he arrived in our lives.  


Freddie at 12 months is generally easygoing and usually quite happy, especially when he spots flags or construction machines to point at or wave to or when he manages to crawl to Ginger in time to grab a chunk of fur before she escapes him - and except when he's waiting on anyone to cut up his food. Kid likes to eat any and all things, and NOW. He is sweet and smiley, doesn't have any discernable words (aside from "uh oh") but is still clear on indicating what he thinks or wants (lately it's lunging toward the Stanley the Builder book in order to request another reading, or squealing when I pick up the baby carrier to take him outside for a little stroll to look at said construction machines and flags), and he just brings joy to us all. 

Having a baby again - especially when so used to the big kid stage - has had its difficulties and anxieties for sure, but all I can think about today (aside from how glad I am that I'm never doing a 24-hour marathon labor/delivery again) is how lucky we are to have this little mister.

Also having all of the nostalgia for when Hendrik turned one after comparing his 1-year post to this one - so fun!

05 August 2022

5 things Friday: August TBR edition

August already! Summer always has a way of flying by, doesn't it? I've done some good summer reading for sure, but while we're still getting to the beach I want to get to some good beach read type books for August:


The Lies I Tell is a thriller (thriller-lite? I hope - that's my favorite) that seems like it might satisfy in the way of Mother May I or The Last Thing He Told Me - beach perfection, in my opinion - from an author I've not read before. 

Very different but also excellent summer escape is YA romance with a royals + wanderlust twist, and I'm looking forward to picking up the sequel to Tokyo Ever After (loved!), Tokyo Dreaming. And though straight-up romance hasn't worked super well for me lately, I've enjoyed the others in this series that combines some of my favorite tropes + characters who put on a renaissance fair every summer (I mean, there's a contemporary romance series for EVERY interest, ha!), and I think I will enjoy the third installment, Well Matched, since I already know and like the protagonist.

I'm returning Hollowpox to the list after not getting to it in June, now that Hendrik and Peter have finished their read-aloud. This series is great, and middle grade is good for the beach if you're having to break focus frequently to watch kids...

And finally, the newest Elizabeth Strout came to me early by way of Netgalley. Though an author I adore, I wouldn't necessarily consider her top of my beach reading list - but the "by the sea" setting seems fitting for it, and I always love spending time in the world of Lucy Barton that Strout has created.



And for a quick recap of my July reading - which unfortunately was not quite as successful of a TBR as I've had lately... Luckily there are a couple of other books I picked up in July that were great: Marrying the Ketchups was a really enjoyable family dramedy; Flying Solo was a rom-com with a different type of relationship focus that I found refreshing; and Project Hail Mary was another not-my-genre success from Andy Weir - though too long, in my opinion (I'm not there for the sciencey explanations!), I was rather charmed by the plucky main character and the creativity of this space travel story.

  • Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow: this one got a lot of hype in places I look at book stuff, and I did really enjoy the story of friendship + creative collaboration, and the really interesting and varied construction of the narrative, even if it didn't quite make it to 5 stars for me. It's the type of book that focuses on a subject (video games + their design) that you really don't need to have an interest in to enjoy the overall story; I liked how she used it as a way to explore the highs and lows of a creative relationship and what success and stress do to it - even if some of the video game nostalgia didn't quite land with me personally. The writing is great, and it's a pretty good mix of character driven + some plot, but it all comes back to the life-spanning friendship/creative partnership, and I think what I didn't love about the book was how much conflict was involved in that. Realistic, perhaps, but I just got a little tired at times of Sadie and Sam being mad at each other, maybe? Really liked the flashbacks to the early parts of their relationship and the banter when they were "on", loved the depth of all of the characters, and also adored the character of their third friend and business partner, Marx, so much. This is the type of book that could be recommended to quite a range of readers, I think - pretty broad appeal and feels unique/different yet still accessible, though admittedly it is rather long and takes a little while to get into a groove/get invested. ★★★★
  • Joan Is Okay: very quick review because I didn't pick it up! Just didn't end up being in the mood for (what I think is) more literary/character-driven fiction.
  • The Roughest Draft: interestingly, here's another one that is about a male/female creative partnership, and all the triumph and conflict that can come along with it - but since this is a romance novel, there's sexual tension too... the problem for me here is that these writing partners clearly had such a rift (and then have to come back together after 4 years of not speaking to write the other book they're under contract for) that they spend most of the time being mad at each other and I just didn't feel any care about them getting together, or believe that there was any real spark to their relationship or depth to their characters. Definitely no banter in their bickering, so it dragged a bit for me. I love a book with a literary world connection, but I found this one disappointing; if you want something in the romance genre that centers on publishing, read Book Lovers instead for a great rom-com, or read Seven Days in June for the more serious underlying issues + writer romance. ★★.5
  • The Guide: Peter Heller is great at the outdoorsy literary suspense story - really good nature writing (lots on the rivers of Colorado and fly fishing in this one), sparse and lyrical prose, and slow build to some intense happenings. I really liked The River; this is a follow-up in that it has the same protagonist and takes place after the events of that book, but I don't think you have to read them both. In this story, 25-year-old Jack, trying to get a new start after being haunted by tragedy from his last river canoeing trip, gets a job as a guide at a gated, isolated fishing lodge in Colorado that caters to the rich and famous, giving them an idyllic nature experience. But within his first couple of days he sees and hears a couple of strange and disturbing things, and quickly the idea of the idyll is broken. Jack is a great character, stoic and so experienced in the outdoors that you really get a thrill through his skills of tracking and such, even if you're a bit of an indoor cat like myself. What really intrigued me about this one was the fact that this lodge is kind of a safe haven for wealthy vacationers from a "novel virus" that has been plaguing the country for a couple of years. A very interesting backdrop  because of some parallels to the Covid pandemic situation of course, but also the isolation due to the virus, the fears of the spread, and the ability of the wealthy to "escape" it all provides this undercurrent of tension that propels the story and adds to the overall slow-build suspense feeling. I'm not 100% here for pandemic books written about Covid, but explorations of it as an instigator for other happenings (like the thriller 56 Days) is really interesting. ★★★★
  • I'll Show Myself Out: in this book of essays on "motherhood and midlife" Jessi Klein explores the experience of and (impossible?) cultural expectations around motherhood, particularly intersecting midlife, marriage, and life in a pandemic. I really liked how she took the literary concept of a "hero's journey" and wove it through the essays to describe how the mundane of motherhood, and the changes a person goes through in becoming/being one, are really this quest with challenges, humiliations, bittersweet moments, and of course joys. And there are some great observations about motherhood that I found myself nodding along with or highlighting - one that I feel like might be universal, but I hadn't heard spoken aloud before, is how the mother's brain can have whole and complete other trains of thought while simultaneously reading aloud books to their children (and even doing the voices and everything!). This is an amusing one - in general she is quite funny - and I appreciated these, just as much as the "big" ones that are feelings or doubts that mothers have - that are real and don't make them a bad mom to voice, and we need more permission to be able to talk about. In general the collection didn't land quite as well with me as her first book, but definitely a voice on modern woman- and motherhood that I appreciate and will keep following. ★★★
 

Any best books of July that you have to share? Here's hoping I actually stay on track with my August ones... so many new releases I want to get my hands on this month, like Kerry Winfrey's newest rom-com, and of course Taylor Jenkins Reid's new one too!

03 August 2022

around the house: hybrid office-guest room moodboard

Sometimes when I get really busy with life and work commitments, I often just itch to have a little creative project, and it usually is something that is SO not needing to be done right now but just sounds so much more appealing to do than my existing, time-sensitive to-do list... Definitely says something about what release my brain needs in the moment, but also it's not always the most helpful when it comes to time management when I get a tad distracted by my swirling ideas.

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In this case, while needing to run a bunch of reports and edit several documents for work, and also needing to pack for a family road trip and to call to make some doctor and passport renewal appointments... all I want to do is a project that's been on the potential home updates docket for a long time (and doesn't have any pressing need to happen at the moment): turn my office space into a hybrid guest room. So I allowed myself a bit of select, dedicated time for online window shopping and am just putting this moodboard here for future inspiration and reference when I actually have time to fully pursue it :)

With Hendrik's old nursery becoming a nursery again for Freddie, we don't have any extra bedrooms left for guest space, and it would be nice to have somewhere we could sleep a few guests (or one of us next time we're trying to avoid sharing Covid, instead of Peter having to do an air mattress in the dining room, ha!). My office is a pretty small room, but I have a perfect little cut-out space in the layout to place my desk against one wall, and then I've found a pull-out daybed with great reviews (including from a family friend) that will let me keep the floor space open for my usual yoga/weights that I also use my office space for, and then easy to put the exercise stuff away and pull out the daybed when needed. Losing the bookshelf that's currently in the cubby space, so I'll replace it with some wall-mounted shelves, plus some bonus storage in an ottoman that could also be a good bedside table. And while we're at it, a new rug will look nice in here too! 

Still need to figure out window treatments, since currently there's zero way to keep out sun/have privacy for someone sleeping there, but plenty of time to consider that, given the state of supply chain furniture delays...